tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27786140389064961002024-03-14T14:10:47.690+08:00Qalam Intisyar♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.comBlogger85125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-82392059843945939352014-10-06T16:02:00.000+08:002015-08-16T16:10:20.125+08:00Delaying Hajj<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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‘Umar bin Al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) once remarked: </div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“I was about to send envoys to the towns (on the outskirts of the Muslim empire) to check on </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">all those who have the means to make Hajj but do not perform it, in order to impose the Jizyah[1] upon them."</span>[2]</div>
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The auspicious Hajj trip is one of the five pillars on Islam, a onetime obligation upon those have the ability to perform it. Every year millions of devout Muslims answer the call to Hajj following in the footsteps of the Prophet (peace be upon him) in answering the call of their father Abraham. </div>
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Unfortunately, many people delay performing the Hajj until the latter part of their lives simply because of convenience. They wish to postpone the trip until they feel they are financially ‘stable’. Some people hold back out of fear of a new Islamic lifestyle they will be obligated to embrace when they return - one should never fear drawing closer to God. Indeed the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, </div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“Hurry to perform Hajj (the obligatory one), as none of you knows what may happen to him”</span>[3] and <span style="color: blue;">“Whoever wants to do Hajj, let him hasten to do so.</span>”[4] </div>
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There is of course a well-known scholarly difference of opinion as to whether Hajj is an obligation that must be executed promptly, or, can be delayed. According to scholars who hold the opinion that the obligation of the Hajj is one of promptness; the Hajj must be carried out as soon as all the preconditions are fulfilled and one cannot delay performing it for the next year. The one who delays the performance of Hajj, even though he has the means to perform it, and then dies, is sinful and has left himself open to the punishment and displeasure of Allah in the Hereafter. </div>
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Others opine that the Hajj may be delayed because the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) choose to perform Hajj in the 10 AH - around four years after the obligation was revealed. This school has other supporting arguments for which there exist counter arguments. Without wanting to endorse one opinion over another, I would like to place the legal difference of opinion to one side and draw our attention to a few other points. Allah the Almighty encourages His servants to compete with each other in performing virtuous deeds. </div>
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He says in one verse, </div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“Race each other to forgiveness from your Lord and a Garden as wide as the heavens and the earth, </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">prepared for the people who have taqwa.” </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“Race each other to forgiveness from your Lord and to a Garden, whose breadth is like that of heaven and earth combined,made ready for those who have faith in Allah and His Messengers. That is Allah’s favour which He gives to those He wills. Allah’s favour is indeed immense.” </span></div>
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Why would one delay the prospect of performing a Hajj mabroor, the accepted Hajj, the reward of which is nothing less than the gardens of paradise? </div>
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This is your chance to have all of your sins forgiven as the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: <span style="color: blue;">“Whoever performs Hajj to this house - Ka’bah - and does not commit any obscenity and wrongdoing, he, or she, will come out as the day he, or she, was born – pure and free from sins.”</span>[5]</div>
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From another perspective the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is reported to have said: <span style="color: blue;">“Hurry to perform Hajj, as none of you knows what may happen to him.”</span> It is as if the Prophet is telling us to think about the matter in a rational way. If someone who has the ability to perform the Hajj delays it; do they not fear that death may catch them up and they then meet Allah with no Hajj to their account? </div>
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The reality is that many do delay Hajj until it’s too late. As the years pass by some of them fall sick with debilitating conditions, others become financially stricken and so the great opportunity is lost. </div>
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I would thus appeal to all Muslims who know that they can perform Hajj without great difficulty to do so before they lose this unique chance of attaining complete forgiveness for their sins and be granted paradise. </div>
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<i>[1] A tax imposed on non-Muslims living under Muslim rule. </i></div>
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<i>[2] Reported by al-Bayhaqi; Al-Haitami declared it Sahih. </i></div>
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<i>[3] Ahmad, Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah </i></div>
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<i>[4] Ahmad and Abu Dawud </i></div>
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<i>[5] Bukhari and Muslim </i></div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Author: Shaikh Dr Haitham Al-Haddad </span></i></div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">The Chairman of Muslim Research and Development Foundation UK</span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-92202442899044928632014-10-02T15:58:00.000+08:002015-08-16T16:00:23.300+08:00Psykologi Cinta<div style="text-align: justify;">
Anda mengetahui yang anda merindui seseorang<br />
apabila jantung anda berdegup pantas ketika teringatkan dia.<br />
Dan walaupun sekadar "Hai" daripada dia mencukupi sebagai penenang.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Anda mungkin menaruh hati kepadanya, </span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">cuma anda tidak menyedarinya ataupun anda tidak mahu menerimanya sebagai kenyataan.</span><br />
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Jangan jadi terlalu baik, saya akan merindui kamu.<br />
Jangan terlalu mengambil berat, saya mungkin menyukai kamu.<br />
Jangan jadi terlalu 'sweet', saya mungkin jatuh hati kepada kamu.<br />
Amat sukar untuk saya menyayangi kamu jika kamu tidak mahu membalasnya.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Seseorang yang membuat kamu jatuh hati kepadanya </span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">sebenarnya menyayangi kamu lebih daripada kamu menyayangi dia.</span><br />
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Jika seseorang hadir dalam hidup kamu dan menjadi<br />
sebahagian daripada kamu, tetapi atas sebab tertentu<br />
dia terpaksa pergi, jangan terlalu sedih ... terimalah<br />
kenyataan itu dan sekurang2nya dia pernah<br />
membahagiakan kamu.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Masa akan menentukan segalanya, jika dia ditakdirkan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">bersama anda, dia akan kembali.</span><br />
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Jangan melarikan diri dari 'cinta' apabila ia berada<br />
di hadapan kamu, Jangan melarikan diri daripadanya<br />
kerana suatu hari nanti, kamu pasti akan<br />
teringatkannya kembali dan menyesali perbuatan kamu<br />
itu.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Hargai orang yang menyayangi kamu, bukan mudah untuk</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">mencari orang yang menyayangi kita. yang paling</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">berharga ialah hati yang ikhlas.</span><br />
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Penyesalan terbesar dalam hidup ialah risiko yang kita<br />
tidak ambil. Jika anda merasakan sesuatu itu akan<br />
membuatkan anda bahagia, maka teruskan. Ingatlah<br />
bahawa kita akan melalui semua ini hanya sekali,<br />
mungkin tiada lagi peluang kedua.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Masa tidak menunggu kita. Jika anda rasakan anda telah</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">bertemu dengan orang yg sesuai, maka hargailah dia,</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">jangan biarkan dia berlalu begitu sahaja. Jangan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">bertangguh kerana takut. Cubalah dahulu atau anda akan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">menyesal kerana membiarkan ia berlalu begitu sahaja.</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">Tiada sesiapapun yang tahu apakah yang membuatkan anda</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">benar2 bahagia.</span><br />
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Ada 2 titis air mata mengalir di sebuah sungai. Satu<br />
titis air mata tu menyapa air mata yg satu lagi, "Saya<br />
air mata seorang gadis yang menyayangi seorang lelaki<br />
tetapi telah kehilangannya. Siapa kamu pula?". Jawab<br />
titis air mata kedua tu, "Saya air mata seorang lelaki<br />
yang menyesal membiarkan seorang gadis yg menyayangi<br />
saya berlalu begitu sahaja."<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Tiada sesiapapun yang simpati kepada orang yang</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">sengaja membiarkan peluang pergi begitu sahaja tanpa</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">berusaha untuk mendapatkannyaatau mempertahankannya.</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">Kita selalunya tidak menghargai seseorang yang hampir</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">atau menyayangi kita sehingga dia pergi meninggalkan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">kita; kemudian kita akan sedih dan menyesal</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">mengingatkannya.</span><br />
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Terdapat banyak bebintang di langit tetapi hanya satu<br />
sahaja yang begitu menyerlah sehingga dapat menarik<br />
perhatian anda. Dari kalangan yang anda pilih untuk<br />
abaikan ialah sebutir bintang yang sanggup menyinari<br />
anda walau diamana sahaja anda berada.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Bahagian 1: orang yang bersama anda ketika ini mungkin</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">bukanlah orang yang benar2 anda sayangi.</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">Bahagian 2: terdapat orang yang tahu dia tidak dapat</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">bersama kamu ketika ini tetapi masih menyayangi kamu</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">sepenuh hatinya, fikirkanlah.</span><br />
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Lawaknya bila kita meletakkan standard untuk orang yg<br />
bakal kita sayangi, tetapi jauh di sudut hati, kita<br />
tahu yang orang yg kita sayangi itu terkecuali<br />
daripada standard itu. (don't be too choosy!)<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Kita amat kritikal terutamanya kepada orang yg kita</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">sukai atau sayangi kerana kita mahukan yang terbaik</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">untuk diri kita. Tetapi sebenarnya kesempurnaan dan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">hubungan terbaik dapat dicapai dengan berusaha</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">bersama. Ia bukanlah terletak kepada satu individu</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">sahaja.</span><br />
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Cinta itu membuatkan anda gembira walaupun ia sering<br />
melukakan. Cinta itu istimewa jika ia diberikan kepada<br />
orang yg bertuah.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Jika anda bertemu seseorang yang benar2 menghargai</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">anda, maka dia berhak mendapat kasih anda.</span><br />
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Menyayangi/mencintai itu umpama bermain piano.<br />
pertama, kita bermain ikut peraturannya. Kemudian,<br />
lupakan peraturannya dan main ikut hati.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Kepercayaan terhadap pasangan adalah amat penting.</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">Untuk mempercayai seseorang yang anda sayang/cintai, anda</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">mestilah membuat dia mempercayai anda dahulu. Yakin</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">terhadap diri sendiri dan pasangan anda. Jangan buat</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">mereka ragu-ragu terhadap anda dan jangan ragu-ragu</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">terhadap mereka.</span><br />
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Apa kata seseorang memberitahu anda ini " saya tidak<br />
percaya dengan courtship (mendapatkan perhatian bagi<br />
memenangi seseorang). Ia cuma membuang masa<br />
sahaja.Jika saya mencintai seseorang, maka saya akan<br />
meluahkan isi hati saya kepadanya. Tetapi, ada pula<br />
pengecualian bagi anda, jika anda mencintai saya,<br />
sayaakan'court'(sentiasa cuba memenangi) anda<br />
selamanya... "<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Cinta itu memerlukan masa untuk disedari kehadirannya.</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">terdapat cinta pandang pertama, tetapi ia masih</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">memerlukan masa bagi pihak satu lagi menyedarinya.</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">Merinduinya apabila dia tiada di sisi, mengharapkan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">berita daripadanya apabila berjauhan...</span><br />
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Adalah lebih baik untuk berani mencintai walaupun<br />
akhirnya anda kecewa daripada tidak mahu mencintai<br />
kerana takutkan risiko atau cabaran yang bakal<br />
mendatang.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Jangan berputus asa apabila terdapat saingan dalam</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">percintaan. Adalah lebih baik untuk anda mencubanya</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">terlebih dahulu; kerana jika anda berjaya,</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">kemenangannya itu teramat manis. Tetapi, jika anda</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">tidak mahu/berani mencubanya,anda mungkin akan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">kehilangan orang yang anda sayang/cintai selamanya.</span><br />
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Anda tidak pernah kalah/kecewa dalam<br />
mencintai/menyayangi. Anda cuma kalah jika anda<br />
bertangguh<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Jangan takut untuk meluahkan isi hati anda kepada</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">orang yang anda sayang/cintai. Beritahu mereka dan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">biar mereka buat keputusan di pihak mereka. Salah satu</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">perkara yang paling indah dalam hidup ialah</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">memberitahu kepada orang yang anda sayangi betapa</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">penting dan istimewanya mereka dalam hidup anda.</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">Dengan itu, anda akan merasa lebih yakin dan puas. Dan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">anda akan rasa bangga terhadap diri anda kerana anda</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">telah menunaikan tanggungjawab anda terhadap perasaan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">hati anda.</span><br />
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Jangan sesekali mengkhianati perasaan hati anda kerana<br />
akibatnya hanya anda yang akan sengsara; bukan orang<br />
lain. Salah satu cabaran paling sukar dalam hidup<br />
ialah mencari orang yang tahu segala kelemahan dan<br />
kekurangan diri anda, tetapi dia masih sangup<br />
menyayangi anda dengan sepenuh hatinya.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Cinta itu adalah berasaskan tolak ansur dan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">pengorbanan. jika dia tahu kelemahan dan kekurangan</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">anda dan masih sanggup bersama anda dan lebih</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">menyayangi anda, maka andalah orang yang paling</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">bertuah! Dia layakmendapat cinta anda.</span><br />
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Ruang kosong di antara celah-celah jari kita dicipta<br />
untuk dipenuhi oleh jari-jari orang lain.<br />
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<span style="color: purple;">Bukalah pintu hati anda, benarkan orang yang anda</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">sayangi masuk, jangan ragui tujuan mereka kerana</span><br />
<span style="color: purple;">keikhlasan itu dapat dirasai dalam hati</span><span style="color: #cc33cc;">.</span><br />
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Dalam percintaan, terdapat beberapa perkara yang perlu<br />
disedari. Apabila anda bercinta... ... Ia bukan<br />
'passport' untuk anda difahami; tetapi untuk anda<br />
memahami. Ia bukan 'passport' untuk anda mengambil itu<br />
dan ini; tetapi untuk anda diambil. Ia adalah untuk<br />
anda mendengar;bukan supaya anda didengar. Ia adalah<br />
untuk anda berkorban dan bertolak ansur; bukan untuk<br />
anda meminta itu dan ini. Ia bukan untuk anda berkira2<br />
atau mengukur; tetapi untuk anda mencintai<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">People Will Forget What U Said</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">People Will Forget What U Did</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">But People Will Never Forget How U Made Them Feel</span></div>
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A daughter complained to her father about her life and how things have been so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and she wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed that just as one problem was solved another arose. </div>
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Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen, filled three pots with water and placed the fire on high. Soon the three pots came to a boil. In one he placed carrots, in the other he placed eggs, and in the last he placed ground coffee beans. He let them sit and boil, without saying a word. </div>
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The daughter sucked her teeth and impatiently wondered what he was trying to do. She had problems, and he was making this strange concoction. In half an hour he walked over to the oven and turned down the fire. He pulled the carrots out and placed them in the bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in the bowl. Then he ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. </div>
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Turning to her he asked. <span style="color: blue;">“Darling what do you see,” </span></div>
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Smartly, she replied. <span style="color: blue;">“Carrots, eggs, and coffee.” </span></div>
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He brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Her face frowned from the strength of the coffee. </div>
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Humbly, she asked. <span style="color: blue;">“What does it mean Father?” </span></div>
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He explained. <span style="color: blue;">“Each of them faced the same adversity, 212 degrees of boiling water. However each reacted differently.” </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. But after going through boiling water, it softened and became weak.” </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“The egg was fragile. A thin outer shell protected a liquid center. But after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.” </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“The coffee beans are unique however. After they were in the boiling water, it became stronger and richer.” </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"Which are you,”</span> he asked his daughter. </div>
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When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? </div>
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Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean? </div>
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Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with the smallest amount of pain, adversity, heat you wilt </div>
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Are you the egg, which starts off with a malleable heart? A fluid spirit. But after a death, a layoff, etc you became hardened and stiff. Your shell looks the same, but you are so bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and heart, internally. </div>
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How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?</div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-15177048394413254922014-09-20T11:56:00.000+08:002015-08-16T15:59:20.422+08:00Jangan Mencari Terlalu SempurnaJika kamu memancing ikan.... <br />
Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail, hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu.... <br />
Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula ke dalam air begitu saja.... <br />
Karena ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kailmu dan mungkin ia akan MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup. <br />
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Begitulah juga ......... <br />
Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang.... <br />
Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGIMU hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya.... <br />
Janganlah sesekali kamu meninggalkannya begitu saja.... <br />
Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia mengingatimu.... <br />
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Jika kamu menadah air biarlah berpada, jangan terlalu mengharap pada takungannya dan janganlah menganggap ia begitu teguh.... cukuplah sekadar keperluanmu.... <br />
Apabila sekali ia retak.... tentu sukar untuk kamu menambalnya semula.... <br />
Akhirnya ia dibuang.... <br />
Sedangkan jika kamu cuba memperbaikinya mungkin ia masih dapat dipergunakan lagi.... <br />
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Begitu juga jika kamu memiliki seseorang, TERIMALAH seadanya.... <br />
Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan janganlah kamu menganggapnya begitu istimewa.... <br />
Anggaplah dia manusia biasa. Apabila sekali dia melakukan KESILAPAN bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya.... <br />
akhirnya kamu KECEWA dan meninggalkannya. <br />
Sedangkan jika kamu MEMAAFKANNYA boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhirnya.... <br />
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Jika kamu telah memiliki sepinggan nasi... <br />
yang kamu pasti baik untuk dirimu. Mengenyangkan. Berkhasiat. Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba mencari makanan yang lain.. <br />
Terlalu ingin mengejar kelazatan. Kelak, nasi itu akan basi dan kamu tidak boleh memakannya.. <br />
Kamu akan menyesal. <br />
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Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan...... <br />
yang pasti membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu. MENYAYANGIMU... MENGASIHIMU... <br />
Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain. <br />
Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan.<br />
Kelak, kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain <br />
Kamu juga yang akan MENYESAL....♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-61715426743390258522014-09-11T15:37:00.000+08:002015-08-16T15:39:27.808+08:00My Wife DOES NOT WORK !!!Conversation between a Husband (H) and a Psychologist (P):<br />
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P : What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy?<br />
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.<br />
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P : Your Wife ?<br />
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.<br />
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P : Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning?<br />
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.<br />
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P : At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast?<br />
H : She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.<br />
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P : How do your kids go to school?<br />
H : My wife takes them to school, because she doesn't work.<br />
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P : After taking your kids to school, what does she do?<br />
H : She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work.<br />
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P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?<br />
H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.<br />
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P : What does your wife do then?<br />
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.<br />
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Whom do you think works more, from the story above???<br />
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The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!<br />
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Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!<br />
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Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles.<br />
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All about a WOMAN ....<br />
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<li>When she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind.</li>
<li>When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted.</li>
<li>When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock.</li>
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Never hurt her or take her wrong or for granted...♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-54389025497757377772014-09-05T15:33:00.000+08:002015-08-16T15:36:34.928+08:00Sincere Repentance – A Sure Path to Forgiveness<div style="text-align: justify;">
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We are all human and sometimes tend to lose the path for a while. What do we do when we realise we were wrong?</div>
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How do we ensure that our repentance is sincere, consistent and successful?</div>
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There are four main steps one must take to repent: </div>
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2. Regret deeply and truly for the sin you committed. </div>
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3. Return to Allah (glorified and exalted be He) for forgiveness. </div>
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4. Make a strong intention never to return to that same sin again.</div>
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If the sin involved infringing on the rights of other people, then one must return the infringed rights back to the individual to whom they belong.</div>
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However, many people find that their repentance begins strong, but then slowly they get weaker and fall back into committing the sin only a short while later. So, to ensure that we stay true to our repentance and keep our promises to Allah (glorified and exalted be He), here are some tips that may help us:</div>
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<span style="color: purple;"><b>Believe that Allah (glorified and exalted be He) is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful</b></span></div>
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You hear many people say “there’s no point in stopping my sin because I’ve wronged so much I don’t deserve God’s forgiveness, He’ll never forgive me.” If you are one of those people then STOP RIGHT THERE!</div>
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How can you think that way, when Allah (glorified and exalted be He) says in the Holy Qur’an over and over again that He is All-Forgiving and Most Compassionate? How can you lose faith in Allah’s (glorified and exalted be He) mercy? He created you and He knows your weaknesses and your faults. Everyone in the world makes mistakes, what makes you the best, is if you turn to Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and beg for forgiveness.</div>
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Here are only a couple of the many examples where Allah (glorified and exalted be He) mentions in the Qur’an, His love for those who repent and promises to forgive with mercy and compassion.</div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“And seek forgiveness of Allah. Indeed Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.”</span> [Qur’an: Chapter 73, Verse 20]</div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“And whoever does a wrong or wrongs himself but then seeks forgiveness will find Allah Forgiving and Merciful.”</span> [Qur’an: Chapter 4, Verse 110]</div>
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We must never think that Allah (glorified and exalted be He) will not forgive us. Repent with sincerity and remember that Allah (glorified and exalted be He) loves His servants and Allah (glorified and exalted be He) will accept your repentance.</div>
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There are many types of sins. No matter how big or small a sin is, once we decide to give it up and want to successfully repent to Allah (glorified and exalted be He), it is of utmost importance for us to locate the main source of this sin and keep away from it to the best of our ability. The source may be a friend, a certain place that you go to sitting, at your computer alone or watching tv alone. If the sin is related to the computer or the TV or other such appliances, we should not eliminate them completely from our lives. Instead we should try to find a way that helps us use these resources for good rather than evil. It is always good to try and have people around you when using these resources so that you feel stronger and surround yourself with people who remind you to stay on the right path, for it is always easy to stray when alone and vulnerable.</div>
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If you find that the source of the sin is a friend, then you should cut ties with this friend. It will not always be an easy task. However if it must be done, then do it for the sake of Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and He shall reward you immensely for it In sha Allah.</div>
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If the sin is more like missing prayers or not fasting in Ramadan, we may try to pinpoint the reason we commit the sin. It may be, that your mind is occupied with other things which are distracting you from the fundamental worship of Allah (glorified and exalted be He). In this case we should try to eliminate these distractions from our lives or try to organise our time to sustain balanced lives which include our worship in our daily lives.</div>
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The people around you have a huge impact on the way you behave. At a time when you want to repent to Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and you sincerely feel bad about the sins that you have committed, you don’t want to be alone. You may find that your family can be a HUGE support for you at times like this. They can remind you of what you are trying to do. They will listen to you and support you through all your struggles to give up your sin.</div>
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Friends are also really important. I cannot stress enough how important it is to choose your friends wisely. Peer pressure IS real. Even if you think that you are strong and you will not fall again, your friends can pressure you into returning to what you used to do.</div>
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Your friends should be those who support you in whatever you do and better yet, they join you and work with you towards the goal of becoming a better person. They encourage you to attend lectures and workshops, and join you in volunteering for good causes.</div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"The believing men and believing women are allies of one another. They enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger."</span> [Qur'an: Chapter 9, Verse 71]</div>
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Most importantly, at times when you’re feeling weak and fear that you may go back to sinning, your friends should be there to help you get back up, steadfast and strong.</div>
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Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said, <span style="color: blue;">“The example of a good companion (who sits with you) in comparison with a bad one, is like that of the musk seller and the blacksmith’s bellows (or furnace); from the first you would either buy musk or enjoy its good smell while the bellows would either burn your clothes or your house, or you get a bad nasty smell thereof.”</span> [Bukhari]</div>
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You could find good company by becoming a regular at your local mosque and socialising with the people you meet there. You can also attend public lectures to find like-minded friends. You are guaranteed to find practicing Muslims who are willing to be part of your support system. Even in your own home, be open with your family – mother, father, siblings or spouse – about the changes you want to make in your life and ask for their help!</div>
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The last and final point stresses on how important it is for you to stay connected with Islam and the Muslim Ummah. It is very uplifting for the soul when you are surrounded by Muslims seeking knowledge together and worshipping together. Make an effort to visit the mosque regularly and attend Islamic lectures and workshops. Keeping yourself busy with useful Islamic events and surrounded with the Islamic community takes your mind off the worldly things, which may trigger your urge to commit the sin once more.</div>
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Staying connected also helps your connection to Allah (glorified and exalted be He). Reading the Qur’an regularly and performing your prayers on time, including the sunnah prayers, keeps the connection lines between yourself and Allah (glorified and exalted be He) strong.</div>
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Once you feel that Islam encompasses all parts of your life and that you are truly close to Allah (glorified and exalted be He), it will be hard for syaitan to drag you back to your old sins. However, always remember to continuously keep asking Allah (glorified and exalted be He) for guidance and protection. Keep asking for His forgiveness as He is the Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.</div>
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No matter what sins you have committed, there is always a way to repent and start afresh. Always have faith in Allah (glorified and exalted be He), fear His wrath and love Him for His mercy. Surround yourself with as much support and motivation as you possibly can and keep your intentions clear. May Allah (glorified and exalted be He) support us all on our journey through the right path AMEEN!</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Source: ProductiveMuslim.Com </span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-80396395994554982982014-08-29T18:32:00.000+08:002015-08-16T15:31:28.579+08:00Lelaki IdamanPertama kali kita bersua, hati yang masih jahil berbisik,<br />
Mengutuskan kau bukan pilihanku, Kau terlalu membosankan,<br />
Aku memandangmu, dan pandanganku kesasar,<br />
Kulihatmu seorang lelaki muda yang warak',<br />
Kau baik namun kau pasti membosankan.<br />
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Kedua kali kita dipertemukan, hati yang mulai mengenal cahaya hidayah ketika itu,<br />
Mulai tertarik pada cara kau membawa diri, menjunjung agamamu di atas kepala walau di negara asing,<br />
Aku memandangmu, ada sesuatu di dalam dirimu yang aku kekurangan,<br />
Kulihatmu seorang lelaki muda yang warak',<br />
Kau pasti seorang yang baik, lebih baik dari ramai orang.<br />
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Kali ketiga kita dipertemukan, Disatu majlis ilmu hatiku ketika itu semakin mengenal Rabb.<br />
Aku kagum bila diperlihatkan banyaknya ilmu agama yang kau ketahui, semangatmu yang bekobar,<br />
Hatiku tersentuh, tak ramai lelaki muda sepertimu,<br />
Kulihatmu kini bukan sekadar seorang yang warak', kau seorang lelaki idaman,<br />
Sungguh kau pasti yang terbaik diantara yang terbaik,<br />
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Dalam diam malam aku berdoa, semoga kita dipertemukan lagi,<br />
Semoga Allah menjodohkan kita, Kerana aku mungkin takkan ketemu lelaki sebaikmu lagi,<br />
Dan mungkin tak ramai yang mengerti, erti mencintai kerana Allah,<br />
Aku mencari yang benar mengerti, dan yang ingin menuju syurgawi,<br />
Kerana kau seorang lelaki yang warak', ciri itu yang aku cari sebagai seorang pendamping hidup.♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-9495128047402727222014-08-21T12:55:00.000+08:002015-08-16T13:00:19.957+08:00'If you feel no shame, then do as you wish' <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Abu Mas'ud 'Uqbah bin 'Amr al-Ansari al-Badri, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, said: <span style="color: blue;">"Among the things that people have found from the words of the previous prophets was: 'If you feel no shame, then do as you wish." </span>[Al-Bukhari] </div>
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<i>Haya'</i> can be translated as: modesty, shame, shyness or bashfulness, as pointed by Ustaz Jamaludin Zarabozo.</div>
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The word haya' is derived from the word "al-hayah", which means life, as if the person who has no haya' (modesty) is like a dead person. </div>
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Islam encourages and treasures al-haya' or modesty. It is one of the most important characteristics that each and every Muslim should acquire and posses. </div>
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Due to the form of the text, it may be interpreted in many possible meaningful ways. Imam Ibnu Rajab pointed out two interpretations of the text according to early scholars: </div>
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If you have no modesty, then do whatever you wish and Allah will punish you for what you do. This mode of expression is well known in the Arabic language, and it is used for threatening someone. This mode is used by the Qur'an in Surah Fussilat: ayat 40. </div>
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If you are contemplating an act and it is an act such that there is no reason to be ashamed of doing it before Allah or the people, then you may do that act. Modesty is used as a criterion over whether or not to do a certain act. The command here is in the form of displaying permission. </div>
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However, there is a valid third interpretation given by Ibnu al-Qayyam who is a scholar from the eighth Hijrah century. He is in the view that the command is not what is meant by this statement. Instead, it is a statement of fact. The meaning is: If a person does not have any modesty, then there is nothing to prevent him/her from doing anything. </div>
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Haya' is one of the most important factors that keeps a person from committing a sinful act. If a person has no haya', he/she will do almost anything. </div>
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There are two aspects of haya' : Natural haya' and acquired haya'. The later is attained as a result of knowing and realizing the Glory of Allah and His attributes. There are many manifestations of haya' as mentioned by Ustaz Jamaludin Zarabozo in his commentaries on the Forty Hadith: </div>
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<li>Haya' towards other humans - an essential characteristic that keeps people from harming one another and from performing indecent acts.</li>
<li>Haya' towards the person him/herself - a person should be ashamed of him/herself when he/she performs acts that are shameful.</li>
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Haya' can sometimes be abused as a justification for not doing something or giving up an obligatory act. For example, being silent or passive in the presence of falsehood or oppression for no reason except claiming haya'. Or using haya' as an excuse for not encouraging good or discouraging evil. Unless, for both of the above mentioned cases, there is another good reason for not doing these acts such as considering the most likely expected harmful consequences. </div>
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Another example of abusing haya' is to use it as an excuse for not seeking knowledge. In many Muslim cultures this matter is confused and misunderstood where there is a proverb or cliché that says: "There is no modesty in asking questions in religious matters". But this cliché is only practiced in a few certain sensitive issues. However when it comes to seeking knowledge in a classroom, the situation is different. Most Muslims become shy and use modesty as an excuse. Parents at home, teachers at school, even lecturers at Universities add to the problem where they may treat asking questions as a sign of not being modest. This attitude needs to be changed to the right, positive one. </div>
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Another example is using haya' as an excuse for not doing what is correct and allowed. You know that something should be done and it is good and allowed or is even a recommended or obligatory act. However, you simply give up and do not do it because of a claimed haya'. Not giving sadaqah (charity) to a needy in front of others, not taking away a harmful material from the street or the path of the Muslims, or not helping or giving a hand to a disabled or an elderly person to cross the street are some good examples of this phenomenon. </div>
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Haya' or modesty is a great Islamic concept that leads to goodness and keeps a Muslim away from doing a bad or indecent act when its level is maximized. Treating bad actions, as shown by revelation, as evil acts and feeling ashamed of Allah to do it and ashamed of the community, are ways of acquiring haya'. Iman and haya' are linked. When there is iman, there is haya', and vice versa. All of us are borne with natural haya'. However it is subject to be spoiled due to environment and dominating ideologies. Technology misuse has its negative and destructive impact on haya'. Muslims need to be aware of such challenges and exert their effort to overcome them. Haya' cannot be used as an excuse for not doing good deeds and acts. </div>
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♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-83601234271762970502014-08-16T22:33:00.000+08:002015-08-16T12:51:45.440+08:00Adakah Si Kaya Ini Gila Atau Kita Yang Mabuk?<div style="text-align: justify;">
Are you mad? Itu yang dikatakan oleh akauntan jutawan Brian Burnie, apabila majikannya menyatakan hasrat untuk menderma hotel mewahnya bernilai sekitar GBP 20 juta.</div>
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Seorang jutawan Britain yang mendermakan hotel mewahnya, hotel yang asalnya sebuah rumah besar lama berusia beratus tahun, diubahsuai dengan kos sebanyak GBP 16 juta. Pada asalnya dia ingin menggunakan seluruh keuntungan dari hotel mewah itu untuk tujuan kebajikan, namun ditukar ideanya. Kini dengan rasminya hotel mewah itu akan dijual dan seluruh hasilnya akan didermakan kepada persatuan kanser. Kos jualannya sudah tentu melebihi GBP 20 juta (RM 110 juta).</div>
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Berikut tiga kata-kata beliau yang menarik hati saya :</div>
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Apa yang disebut pertama tadi bertepatan dengan tanggungjawab sosial dalam Islam. Malah di dalam Islam pembangunan jatidiri individu rakyat sememangnya jauh lebih penting dari pembangunan material seperti bangunan pencakar langit dan lainnya.</div>
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Ertinya : <span style="color: blue;">"Dan janganlah kamu bertangguh-tangguh (dalam bersedeqah) sehingga sampainya (nyawamu) di kerongkong (hampir mati)"</span> (Riwayat Al-Bukhari, no 1353)</div>
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Bagi jutawan Muslim, Islam menganjurkan pendekatan yang sedikit berbeza, banyak pula yang sama. Yang paling berbeza adalah keperluan jutawan Muslim untuk menyembunyikan sumbangan dan sedeqahnya. Allah swt berfirman :</div>
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Nabi s.a.w bersabda ertinya : <span style="color: blue;">"Sedeqah yang dilakukan secara sembunyi memadamkan kemurkaan Allah swt."</span></div>
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Namun demikian, jumlah golongan ini masih belum cukup besar, masih ramai lagi hartawan dan jutawan Muslim yang masih belum dan terlalu berkira-kira untuk menyumbang, kita sewajarnya lebih laju dari hartawan bukan Islam yang saya sebutkan di atas.</div>
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Kita sewajarnya lebih sedar bahawa menyumbang sama ada melalui zakat yang wajib atau sedeqah yang sunat akan menambah berkat dan rezeki dari Allah swt. Menambah rezeki yang bersifat spiritual. Sabda Nabi s.a.w :-</div>
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Ertinya : <span style="color: blue;">"Tiadalah harta itu berkurang disebabkan oleh sedeqah"</span> ( riwayat Muslim)</div>
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Kini, sudah ramai yang merasakan kesan sumbangan yang dikeluarkan adalah pertambahan, bukan kurang. Malah ia turut dirasa oleh hartawan bukan Islam seperti Bill Gates, beliau pernah menyebutkan hal ini dalam satu majalah antarabangsa satu ketika dahulu (namun saya gagal mencari keratannya).</div>
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Jika mereka sudah merasakan nikmah kebahagiaan hasil pemberian itu, bilakah kita pula?. Jangan ditunggu kita bergelar jutawan atau billionaire untuk bertindak, mulakan dari sekarang secara kecil-kecilan sesuai dengan kemampuan kita. Walau adakalanya kita tidak layak untuk membayar zakat wajib harta atau pendapatan kerana beban kewangan yang lebih besar dari pendapatan, namun jangan sekali menjadikannya sebagai alasan untuk tidak menderma dan menyumbang. Moga dengan sumbangan kecil dan ikhlas itu, mampu menjadi pembersih harta kita dan penyuburnya.</div>
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Ertinya ; <span style="color: blue;">"Sedeqah yang paling utama adalah menggembirakan fakir dan dikelaurkan dala keadaan sedikit harta"</span> ( Riwayat Ahmad 5/178 ; Tafsir Ibn Kathir, 1/701)</div>
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Ikhlaskan niat dan jangan pula ‘kotor mulut' mencela apabila sedeqah yang diberi kelihatan tidak menambah keuntungan duniawi dalam jangka masa yang segera. Saya bimbang, ada yang menderma dengan niat yang satu, iaitu untuk mengharapkan untung berganda setelah dimotivasikan oleh para ustaz bahawa bersedeqah boleh menambah keuntungan, lalu apabila tiada pertambahan lalu dicelanya hadis, dicelanya ustaz, disesalinya sedeqah yang pernah di lakukan dahulu sebagai silap dan salah. Ingatlah firman Allah swt :-</div>
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Ertinya : <span style="color: blue;">"Orang-orang yang menafkahkan hartanya di jalan Allah, kemudian mereka tidak mengiringi apa yang dinafkahkannya itu dengan menyebut-nyebut pemberiannya dan dengan tidak menyakiti (perasaan si penerima), mereka memperoleh pahala di sisi Tuhan mereka. Tidak ada kekhawatiran terhadap mereka dan tidak (pula) mereka bersedih hati "</span> (Al-Baqarah : 262)</div>
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Lihat dan fahamilah dalam-dalam erti yang tersurat pada ayat ini, setiap pemberian sedeqah mestilah diriingi oleh rasa puas, gembira, tiada khuatir, tiada sedih dan sesal.</div>
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Bukankah pakar-pakar motivasi sedunia malah doktor menyatakan, antara faktor yang boleh memberikan kesihatan tubuh, awet muda dan fikiran terfokus adalah KURANG STRESS dan hati yang gembira. Bergembiralah wahai penderma, gembira memberi dan menyumbang sama ada ilmu, harta, masa dan tenaga dengan rela dan redha. Nesacaya kita akan lebih tenang dan tersenyum, prestasi boleh meningkat, idea boleh bercambah.</div>
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Bukankah Allah swt yang menggerakkan hati-hati dan minda manusia lain sama ada untuk memberi kita kontrak dan tender, mengambil kita bekerja, menaikkan pangkat, melantik kita untuk jawatan itu dan ini, memberi kepercayaan utnuk tugasan baru yang lumayan dan lain-lain. Lalu yakinilah dan bersangka baiklah dengan Allah swt, nescaya Allah akan menunaikan sangkaan baik kita.</div>
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Terlalu ramai orang yang sentiasa sibuk memikir cara untuk MENDAPATKAN wang dan harta untuk dirinya, ye, MENCARI WANG, MENAMBAH WANG, MENGUMPUL WANG. Siang, malam pagi dan petang berhempas pulas minda dan tenaga mencari jalan. Sehingga ingin sahaja dilanggar semua jalan yang berpotensi, walau ia haram atau syubhat. Yang penting dalam mindanya, adalah poketnya semakin tebal. Sedangkan seluruh penghumpulan itu sekadar di dunia yang pendek ini.</div>
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Malangnya, sangat kurang yang berhempas pulas memikirkan bagaimana untuk MENYUMBANG WANG, MEMBERI WANG, SEDEQAH WANG. Bukankah memberi ini demi kehiduapan selepas kematian yang terlalu amat panjang masanya. Mulakan berfikir untuknya, sebenarnya untuk kita juga.</div>
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Brian Burnie, jika seorang jutawan bukan Islam warga Britain boleh berkata dan bertindak berdasarkan kata-katanya ini:</div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"We live in a "me, me, me" society and it has always been important to me to think of others"</span></div>
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Lalu apa lagi alasan kita, bersedeqahlah sebelum sampai nyawa di kerongkong... Adakah si kaya ini gila kerana mendermakan wang yang begitu banyak? Atau kita yang mabuk dengan pencarian wang secara petingkan diri tanpa sebarang pemberian?</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Artikel asal oleh: Dr. Zaharuddin Abd Rahman (www.zaharuddin.net)</span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-54223779302103208722014-08-06T12:38:00.000+08:002015-08-16T12:52:17.684+08:00Fasting Six Days of Shawwal after Ramadan: 'Like Fasting the Entire Year'<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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1. Based on this, the majority of the fuqaha', including the Hanafi, Shafi`i, and Hanbali school, have held that it is recommended to fast six days of the month of Shawwal </div>
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2. It is permitted to fast these six days separately throughout the month, or consecutively, after Eid al-Fitr. </div>
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3. It is prohibitively disliked (makruh tahriman) and sinful to fast on 'Eid day (1st Syawal) itself. </div>
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4. The Shafi`is and Hanbalis state that it is superior to make the six fasts consecutive. </div>
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Khatib al-Shirbini explains the reasoning as being,<span style="color: blue;"> “In order to hasten to do the good, and because of the problems inevitable in delaying,”</span> such as becoming lazy and not actually fulfilling this sunna in the end, though he points out that the sunna is fulfilled by both consecutive and non-consecutive fasting of six days in Shawwal. </div>
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The later Hanafi scholars differed as to which is better, fasting the six days consecutively or non-consecutively, though neither is disliked and both fulfill the sunna. However, it would be agreed that those who fear not fulfilling the recommendation due to laziness, forgetfulness or other excuses, should hasten to fast the six days consecutively immediately after Eid al-Fitr. </div>
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5. The reward is akin to having fasted obligatory fasts the entire year days, according to Buhuti, Shirbini, and others. </div>
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Abu Hurayra (Allah be pleased with him) said that the Prophet (Allah bless him & give him peace) said, </div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, though there is good in both. Be avid for that which benefits you. Rely on Allah and do not deem yourself incapable…” </span>[Muslim 4816, Ibn Majah 76, Ahmad 8436] </div>
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Imam Nawawi (Allah have mercy on him) explained that the ‘strength’ in this hadith refers to, <span style="color: blue;">“One’s determination and ability in matters of the next life.” </span></div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Source: Qibla.com </span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-34723961665534820812014-07-29T23:13:00.000+08:002015-08-16T12:23:13.874+08:00Ways to Stay Proactive for Single Muslimahs<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="color: blue;">“Our Lord, perfect for us our light and forgive us. Indeed, You are over all things competent.”</span> [Qur'an: Chapter 66, Verse 8]</div>
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We all wish to marry and settle down with a comforting partner in our lives. Especially women. They begin to hope and dream of a husband usually during their teens. The budding desire to have half our deen completed as soon as possible is quite strong in women. Women want to have a spouse who practically makes her life incredible with each passing moon, and kids who make her home a heaven. Truly, which woman wouldn’t want a picture perfect family in her life?</div>
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Every female wants this dream. And with this desire, comes a pressure for many Muslim females i.e., getting married at a youthful age. That’s right. While men do not deal with this pressure, many women do. The younger, the better.</div>
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On the other hand this tradition often leads towards too many low self-esteem points for single sisters out there who haven’t found their other half yet and feel like they are either forever alone or forever destined to be single.</div>
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Soon, they begin to develop serious depression as they watch their friends and even younger peers get married. Many are even left feeling like their youth is wasted if they are not married while they are young.</div>
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This article is penned down as a gift and advice from one single sister for her other single single sisters out there who are feeling down and need help to see the light of iman. I hope that you can gain wisdom from this and beat the obstacles to being productive, as Islam inspires us to do.</div>
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The first and most foremost step is to realise the basic things that disturb you regarding your single marital status. Then using Hikmah, overcome that notion with a highly productive and halal thing in life to turn your sad days into blissful ones.</div>
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I have listed below major thoughts that come to mind and lure us towards negativity. Hunt them down, sisters – with antidotes! – before they hunt you down. </div>
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1. What good I am if am not married in youthful age? </div>
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3. How will I enjoy my life if I am not married soon? </div>
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4. Oh no! What would my relatives say! She finished her studies but she’s still not married?! </div>
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6. I have to hunt a husband soon or I’ll be too old to get married one day. </div>
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7. Am I not pretty? </div>
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If none of these thoughts have ever crossed your mind, Masha Allah and Subhan Allah, congratulations on your firm belief in Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and His works.</div>
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But if any of these thoughts has crossed your mind, be alert sister! You are suffering from a state which paralyses your soul and halts productivity in beautiful Muslimahs – Muslimahs who probably can make a good difference in this world or someone’s life. Remember, shaytan’s greatest enemy is the soul that is most pleasing and dutiful to Allah (glorified and exalted be He), so he tries to dishearten you and spoil your life.</div>
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This is where you need to be wise and patient. For Allah (glorified and exalted be He) orders in Qur’an,<span style="color: blue;"> “Say: “Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has decreed for us; He is our Protector”. And upon Allah let the believers rely.”</span> [Qur’an Chapter 9: Verse 51].</div>
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<span style="color: purple;">1. Dedicate your youth to Allah (glorified and exalted be He) if a husband hasn’t come yet.</span></div>
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The reasons for not being able to get married yet can vary, but just because marriage hasn’t come to you yet, it does not mean that your youth – or your whole life – is wasted, sister. If you regret losing time in waiting for a spouse, then turn the tables by dedicating your youthful single days to Allah’s cause and obedience.</div>
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This way you won’t feel sad nor regret losing beautiful days. In fact, if Allah (glorified and exalted be He) is with you every day, what have you lost? After all, among the seven who would be provided shade under His shade on the day is the youth who grew up worshipping Allah (glorified and exalted be He). [Al-Bukhari & Muslim] </div>
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You’re only young once. Would you really let it slip away while you mourn over being single, or would you rather do something productive for the sake of Allah (glorified and exalted be He)? Once again, turn the tables over and start an amazing project. Let this project be one that is beneficial for both your present time in the dunya and the akhirah.</div>
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Maybe you could start on a noble project that you can pass on to your children and further generations as legacy. One idea is to produce a copy of handwritten Qur’an using beautiful calligraphy. I’m sure you can think of many more ideas! </div>
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I know that family pressures tend to bubble up and make your life unhappy. In the words of someone I interviewed for this article, “It’s not easy with these destructive relatives; but I focus on what I have, not on what I do not have, and definitely not on others’ opinions about me. But you know how it is – their words do get to you in a painful way and you can’t help not getting affected by it. So allow yourself to be upset but pick yourself up and simply move on. That’s how I do it.”</div>
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Remember that pain is just a state of mind. You can think your way out of everything, even pain. Try not to involve yourself in arguments, avoid the company of negative people, be wise and exit an uncomfortable situation politely. And if you feel burdened, pray, <span style="color: blue;">“Our Lord! Lay not upon us such a burden as You did lay upon those before us.”</span> [Qur’an: Chapter 2, Verse 286] </div>
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We are special, sisters! The special creation of Allah (glorified and exalted be He) with an aim in this world. There’s nothing wrong with your face or mind or hijab or your nose to be honest. Our life, though filled with not-so-pleasant moments sometimes, is a gift from Allah (glorified and exalted be He). We’ll always be tested. There will be tears but there will also be laughter and love. You have the right to live your life however you want it to. Marriage isn’t something you can force. Trust in Allah’s plan for you and be strong. </div>
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Take advantage of the time and freedom you have and invest in education. It could be a language course or a degree. Don’t miss out on the time. Make Hazrat Aisha (may Allāh be pleased with her) your role model and pursue education with noble passion and zeal. She is considered one of the great female scholars in Islam. This is your opportunity to educate yourself in the best manner for the sake of becoming a good educated mother and a wife in the future, In sha Allah. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">6. Know that there has to be a reason why Allah (glorified and exalted be He) has chosen this for you.</span></div>
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To believe in Allah (glorified and exalted be He) requires total faith in His Actions and what he wills for you. Try to sit alone for a few minutes and talk to your soul. Then reason with your heart and inform your nafs that there is a reason why Allah (glorified and exalted be He) has chosen this situation for you.</div>
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Maybe He desires that you fulfill a very important task in life for His sake, so He decrees that you stay single till you have achieved that aim? Or maybe He wants to reward you with something great and this ordeal is a test for you. So make istighfar as much as you can, and make dua to your Lord to grant you victory and peace and fill your heart with serenity and love. Then make lots of dua for your future spouse’s khair.</div>
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And always say,<span style="color: blue;"> “O My Lord, Whenever you wish for me to be married, let it be for good and happiness”.</span></div>
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If you wish to recite dua from Qur’an, take refuge in this verse: <span style="color: blue;">“And those who say,”Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”</span> [Qur’an: Chapter 25, Verse 74]</div>
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If you fill your heart with love for Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and His Rasool (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him), I can guarantee that all these hurdles and troubling thoughts concerning marriage will perish and you will see yourself as a productive Muslimah who is making a difference in the world of Allah (glorified and exalted be He).</div>
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May Allah (glorified and exalted be He) be your Light, my Light, our Light. Ameen.</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Author: Pervisha Khan | Productive Muslim</span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-41500059481907121062014-07-18T12:43:00.000+08:002015-08-16T12:51:21.036+08:00The Last Ten Days of Ramadhan<div style="text-align: justify;">
It’s hard to believe that Ramadan is heading down the final homestretch. The last few days of Ramadan are upon us, as Muslims from all over the world step up their efforts to make the most of every remaining moment. The last ten nights of Ramadan are are the most blessed and we should increase our worship and devotion as they hold the glittering jewel of Lailatul-Qadr, or the Night of Power, which Allah describes it in the Quran as being better than a thousand months. </div>
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Allah’s Messenger used to exert himself in devotion during the last ten nights to a greater extent than at any other time. (Muslim). </div>
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Aisha r.a reported: With the start of the last ten days of Ramadan, the Prophet s.a.w. used to tighten his waist belt (i.e. work harder) and used to pray the whole night, & used to keep his family awake for the prayers. (Bukhari) </div>
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So there is still time for us to redeem ourselves in the last 10 blessed days of Ramadan. We must NOT miss this opportunity otherwise we will regret it forever. We should strive to seek out night of power which is hidden in one of the last 10 nights of Ramadan, particularly in the odd numbered nights. So this is our chance to get closer to Allah & to gain his mercy and forgiveness of ALL of our past and present sins! Therefore we should put everything into the last 10 nights & know that we will get so much more in return. But if we waste these nights then we will regret it FOREVER! </div>
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<b><span style="color: purple;">How can we maximize these blessed nights? </span></b></div>
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<span style="color: purple;">1. Sitting I’tikaf in the last 10 days </span></div>
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I`tikaf is the seclusion and staying in the Masjid with the intention of becoming closer to Allah by doing constant remembrance, glorification and worship of Allah. I’tikaf is a great Sunnah. </div>
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Aishah r.a reported that the Prophet s.a.w.: <span style="color: blue;">“Used to perform i’tikaf in the last ten days of Ramadan until Allah the Mighty & Majestic, took him.”</span> (Bukhari & Muslim) </div>
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Women can also sit I’tikaf at the Masjid with husbands permission. There is a difference of opinion whether she can sit I’tikaf at home. The Hanafi mazhab states a woman can sit I’tikaf at a designated place in her home. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">2. Reciting Qur’an abundantly </span></div>
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What better time to recite the Qur’an than in ones of the very nights it was revealed – The Night of Power. Therefore we should increase our recitation even more during the last ten days & nights. The reward for reciting each letter of the Qur’an during Ramadan is 700 hasanah or more. Subhanallah! </div>
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We should try & aim to complete the Qur’an at least once if not more by the end of the last 10 days of Ramadan. Along with recitation we should also read & learn the meanings of the Qur’an. We should contemplate & ponder over the verses & implement what we read & learn into our daily lives. </div>
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What better way of drawing closer to Allah during the last 10 days of Ramadan than by praying the voluntary prayers: </div>
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Allah says in Hadith Qudsi: <span style="color: blue;">"….And My slave keeps on coming closer to Me through performing Nawafil (voluntary deeds) until I love him,"</span> [Bukhari] </div>
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The Most Rewarding Nawafil Prayer of all is Tahajjud. Hadith of Abu Hurayrah r.a that the Prophet s.a.w. said, <span style="color: blue;">“If you get up for night prayer, start with two short Rakaats.”</span> [Muslim, Ahmad, Abu Dawud] </div>
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When we make Du'a we should imagine Allah is watching us and so we should call on him, crying to him. If we can’t cry due to the hardness of our hearts then we should at least act & make the face like we are crying. We should ask of Allah sincerely with remorse & intention not to repeat such sins again for forgiveness of our past & present sins. </div>
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Ibn Mas`ud (Allah be pleased with him) was asked,<span style="color: blue;"> “I cannot pray at night.”</span> He said, <span style="color: blue;">”Your sins have prevented you.” </span></div>
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Almighty Allah says in the Qur’an: <span style="color: blue;">“When my servants ask you concerning me, (tell them) I am indeed close (to them). I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calls on me.”</span> [2:186] </div>
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Many of us rush our Dua’s & quite often our hearts are not present whilst we are making dua to Allah. That is why we lose out on much of the benefits & blessings of Du'a. Therefore we should not let our minds wonder whilst in Dua & we should concentrate more, making sure our hearts are present whilst asking of Allah. Whilst we are in dua we should imagine Almighty Allah in front of us & so we should humble ourselves in front of him in a state of meekness & humility. </div>
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It may also help if we made a list of what we want to ask Allah during our dua’s. We can then refer to this list as a reminder so that we can cover everything we need to ask him, which may help in making our Dua’s longer & more sincere. This is because we will not always remember everything we want to ask Allah unless we note it down & refer back to it when we need to. </div>
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Aisha (RA) said: I asked the Prophet s.a.w. :<span style="color: blue;"> "O Messenger of Allah, if I know what night is the night of Qadr, what should I say during it?"</span> He said, Say: <span style="color: blue;">”Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbul ‘afwa fa’fu ‘annee"</span> (O Allah, You are pardoning & You love to pardon, so pardon me.) (Ahmad, Ibn Majah, & Tirmidhi). </div>
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We should cry & beg of Allah to give us his mercy & forgiveness especially in the last 10 blessed nights of Ramadan. If we leave Ramadan without gaining the mercy of Allah then surely we are of the most unfortunate and amongst the biggest losers in this world and the next. </div>
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Abu Hurairah r.a narrated that the Prophet s.a.w. said: <span style="color: blue;">“Whoever stands (in prayer) in Laylatul Qadr while nourishing his faith with self-evaluation, expecting reward from Allah, will have all of his previous sins forgiven.”</span> (Bukhari and Muslim). </div>
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This is our best opportunity to gain forgiveness of our past ans present sins. Forget the past now, learn from it & take lessons from it. What matters is NOW. So ask of Allah every night especially in the odd numbered nights for mercy & forgiveness. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">6. Seeking out Laylatul Qadr (Night of Power) </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"By the manifest Book (the Quran) that makes thing clear. We sent it (this Quraan) down on a Blessed Night (i.e. the Night of Qadr) in the month of Ramadaan.." </span>(The Smoke 44:2-5) </div>
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So valuable is the Night of Qadr (Power) that the Quran devotes a special surah to it: <span style="color: blue;">“Lailatul Qadr is better than a thousand months”</span> [97:3] </div>
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This one night surpasses the value of 30,000 nights. There is NO doubt that if we pray on all of the last ten nights of Ramadan then we will catch this auspicious night & gain the rewards of over 83 YEARS OF WORSHIP! Subhaanallah! Most do not live up to such an age! </div>
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Abu Hurairah (RA) narrated that the Prophet s.a.w. said: <span style="color: blue;">”Whoever stands (in qiyaam) in Lailatul-Qadr out of faith and expectation (of Allah’s reward), will have ALL of his previous sins forgiven.”</span> (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Edited from: muslimvillage.com </span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-74052557065835672762014-07-05T12:24:00.000+08:002015-08-16T12:37:18.890+08:00Kesilapan Kerap Muslim Dalam Bulan Ramadhan <div style="text-align: justify;">
Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. bersabda maksudnya: <span style="color: blue;">“Sesiapa berpuasa pada Ramadan dengan penuh keimanan dan keikhlasan, diampunkan dosanya yang telah lalu.”</span> (Hadis riwayat Bukhari, Muslim dan Ahmad).</div>
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Alangkah ruginya jika kebanyakan umat Islam mensia-siakan atau tidak memanfaatkan kedatangan Ramadan yang sebentar itu dengan kerja kebajikan. Perkara ini kerana pada bulan inilah Allah memberi banyak keistimewaan iaitu berupa ganjaran pahala berganda bagi setiap amalan baik yang dikerjakan. Ia tidak dikurniakan Allah pada bulan lain. Namun, kemampuan untuk mendapatkan kesempurnaan pahala Ramadhan kerap kali tergugat akibat kekurangan ilmu dan kekurangperihatinan umat Islam kini. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">1) Makan dan minum dengan bebas setelah batal puasa dengan sengaja (bukan kerana uzur yang diterima Islam). </span></div>
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Perlu diketahui bahawa sesiapa yang batal puasanya dengan sengaja tanpa uzur seperti mengeluarkan mani secara sengaja, merokok, makan dan minum, ia dilarang untuk makan dan minum lagi atau melakukan apa jua perkara yang membatalkan puasa yang lain sepanjang hari itu. Ia dikira denda yang pertama baginya selain kewajiban menggantikannya kemudiannya. Keadaan ini disebut di dalam sebuah hadith, </div>
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Ertinya : <span style="color: blue;">"Sesungguhnya sesiapa yang telah makan (batal puasa) hendaklah ia berpuasa baki waktu harinya itu"</span> (Riwayat al-Bukhari) </div>
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Jelasnya, individu yang melakukan amalan ini terhalang dari mendapat keberkatan dan kelebihan yang ditawarkan oleh Nabi SAW malah bercanggah dengan sunnah baginda. "Sahur" itu sendiri dari sudut bahasanya adalah waktu terakhir di hujung malam. Para Ulama pula menyebut waktunya adalah 1/6 terakhir malam. Imam Ibn Hajar menegaskan melewatkan sahur adalah lebih mampu mencapai objektif yang diletakkan oleh Nabi SAW. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">3) Bersahur dengan hanya makan & minum sahaja tanpa ibadah lain. </span></div>
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Ini satu lagi kesilapan umat Islam kini, waktu tersebut pada hakikatnya adalah antara waktu terbaik untuk beristigfar dan menunaikan solat malam. </div>
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Firman Allah ketika memuji orang Mukmin ertinya :<span style="color: blue;"> "dan ketika waktu-waktu bersahur itu mereka meminta ampun dan beristighfar"</span> (Az-Zariyyat : 18) </div>
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يا رسول الله , أي الدعاء أسمع ؟ : قال : جوف الليل الأخير ودبر الصلوات المكتوبة</div>
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Ertinya : <span style="color: blue;">"Ditanya kepada Nabi (oleh seorang sahabat) : Wahai Rasulullah :" Waktu bilakah doa paling didengari (oleh Allah s.w.t) ; Jawab Nabi : Pada hujung malam (waktu sahur) dan selepas solat fardhu"</span> (Riwayat At-Tirmidzi) </div>
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Ia adalah satu kesilapan yang maha besar. Memang benar, solat bukanlah syarat sah puasa. Tetapi ia adalah rukun Islam yang menjadi tonggak kepada keislaman sesorang. Justeru, ‘ponteng' solat dengan sengaja akan menyebabkan pahala puasa seseorang itu menjadi ‘kurus kering' pastinya. </div>
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Ini jelas suatu kelompongan yang ada dalam masyarakat tatkala berpuasa. Ramai yang lupa dan tidak mengetahui kelebihan besar semua solat fardhu berbanding solat sunat, terutamanya solat subuh berjemaah yang disebutkan oleh Nabi SAW bagi orang yang mendirikannya secara berjemaah, maka beroleh pahala menghidupkan seluruh malam. </div>
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Malanglah mereka kerana setiap amalan di kira dengan niat, jika niat utama seseorang itu (samada lelaki atau wanita) hadir ke masjid adalah untuk meriah dan bukannya atas dasar keimanan dan mengharap ganjaran redha Allah sebagaimana yang ditetapkan oleh Nabi SAW di dalam hadith riwayat al-Bukhari. Maka, <span style="color: blue;">"Sesungguhnya sesuatu amalan itu dikira dengan niat"</span>. (Riwayat al-Bukhari) </div>
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Sedangkan, kerja yang kita lakukan di pejabat dengan niat ibadat pastinya menambahkan lagi pahala. Justeru, umat Islam sewajarnya memperaktifkan produktiviti mereka dan bukan mengurangkannya di Ramadhan ini. </div>
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Sedangkan Imam As-Sayuti menegaskan bahawa hadith yang menyebut berkenaan tidur orang berpuasa itu ibadat adalah amat lemah. (al-Jami' as-Soghir; Faidhul Qadir, Al-Munawi, 6/291) </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">9) Menganggap waktu imsak sebagai ‘lampu merah' bagi sahur. </span></div>
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Ini adalah kerana waktu imsak sebenarnya tidak lain hanyalah ‘lampu amaran oren' yang dicadangkan oleh beberapa ulama demi mengingatkan bahawa waktu sahur sudah hampir tamat. Ia bukanlah waktu tamat untuk makan sahur, tetapi waktu amaran sahaja. Lalu, janganlah ada yang memberi alasan lewat bangun dan sudah masuk imsak lalu tidak dapat berpuasa pada hari itu. Waktu yang disepakti ulama merupakan waktu penamat sahur adalah sejurus masuk fajar sadiq (subuh). (As-Siyam, Dr Md ‘Uqlah, hlm 278) </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">10) Wanita berterawih beramai-ramai di masjid tanpa menjaga aurat. </span></div>
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Ini nyata apabila ramai antara wanita walaupun siap bertelekung ke masjid, malangnya kaki dan aurat mereka kerap terdedah dan didedahkan ketika berjalan dan naik tangga masjid di hadapan jemaah lelaki. Tatkala itu, fadhilat mereka solat di rumah adalah lebih tinggi dari mendatangkan fitnah buat lelaki ketika di masjid. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">11) Memasuki Ramadhan dalam keadaan harta masih dipenuhi dengan harta haram, samada terlibat dengan pinjaman rumah, kad kredit, insuran, pelaburan dan kereta secara riba. </span></div>
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Ini sudah tentu akan memberi kesan yang amat nyata kepada kualiti ibadah di bulan Ramadhan, kerana status orang terlibat dengan riba adalah sama dengan berperang dengan Allah dan RasulNya, tanpa azam dan usaha untuk mengubahnya dengan segera di bulan 'tanpa Syaitan' ini, bakal menyaksikan potensi besar untuk gagal terus untuk kembali ke pangkal jalan di bulan lain. </div>
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ذَكَرَ الرَّجُلَ يُطِيلُ السَّفَرَ أَشْعَثَ أَغْبَرَ يَمُدُّ يَدَيْهِ إلى السَّمَاءِ يا رَبِّ يا رَبِّ وَمَطْعَمُهُ حَرَامٌ وَمَشْرَبُهُ حَرَامٌ وَمَلْبَسُهُ حَرَامٌ وَغُذِيَ بِالْحَرَامِ فَأَنَّى يُسْتَجَابُ لِذَلِكَ</div>
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Ertinya : "<span style="color: blue;">menyebut tentang seorang pemuda yang bermusafir dalam perjalanan yang jauh, hal rambutnya kusut masai, mukanya berdebu di mana dia mengangkat tangan ke langit : Wahai Tuhanku...wahai Tuhanku... sedangkan makanannya haram, minumannya haram dan pakaiannya haram..Dan dia dibesarkan dengan memakan makanan haram maka bagaimana Kami mahu mengabulkan doanya." </span>(Riwayat Muslim) </div>
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Justeru, bagaimana Allah mahu memakbulkan doa orang yang berpuasa sedangkan keretanya haram, rumahnya haram, kad kreditnya haram, insurannya haram, simpanan banknya haram, pendapatannya haram?. Benar, kita perlu bersangka baik dengan Allah, tetapi sangka baik tanpa meloloskan diri dari riba yang haram adalah penipuan kata Imam Hasan Al-Basri. </div>
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Ini satu lagi jenis kerugian yang kerap dilakukan oleh umat Islam. Nabi SAW telah menyebut, yang bererti: </div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"Tiga golongan yang tidak ditolak doa mereka, pemimpin yang adil, individu berpuasa sehingga berbuka dan doa orang yang di zalimi"</span> (Riwayat At-Tirmizi) </div>
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Ertinya : <span style="color: blue;">"Sesungguhnya bagi orang berpuasa itu ketika berbuka (atau hampir berbuka) doa yang tidak akan ditolak"</span> (Riwayat Ibn Majah) </div>
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SELAMAT MENYAMBUT RAMADHAN! JOM RANCANG RAMADHAN KITA... </div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Artikel asal oleh: Dr Zaharuddin Abd Rahman (www.zaharuddin.net) </span></i></div>
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For a Muslimah who is unable to fast due to that time of the month, the “fasting holiday” can lead to laziness. But don’t let this precious time go to waste! There are other ways you can enjoy a productive Ramadan, even when you can’t fast, to continually increase your rewards during this Holy Month, In sha Allah.</div>
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When you can’t fast, it can feel like a challenge to get up off the couch and do something productive during Ramadan. I know. I used to be no different. Only after realising how much time I wasted just lying around when I could be spending my time for the sake of Allah (glorified and exalted be He), did I finally decide to better my habits. Here, I will share some tips that helped me become more productive, no excuses!</div>
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<li>The first ingredient you need to actually change and become more productive is constant motivation: Persist regularly and continually motivate yourself. </li>
<li>Remind yourself that you have made it a goal to change for the better during this Holy Month. Be determined, and strive to achieve that goal. </li>
<li>Make a To-Do list before going to bed, so that when you wake up you are reminded that today is the day to be proactive. </li>
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I’ve found it ultimately beneficial to put together a daily schedule and follow it through. For example, when waking up, make sure that the first thing you do is to make your bed. Performing a simple act such as making your bed can bring about many benefits: it reminds you of a brand new day that Allah (glorified and exalted be He) has blessed you with; it can remind you of cleanliness and can even make your room look cleaner. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">2. Continue Your Day with Other Productive Tasks</span></div>
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Exercise, get cleaned up, unload the dishwasher from last night, eat a healthy and nutritious meal during suhoor (it’s always great to eat this sunnah meal, especially with your family and loved ones), clean up, etc. </div>
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At the end of the day, before bed, load the dishwasher, clean the kitchen, brush your teeth, and get ready for bed, etc. Be sure to maintain a feasible schedule throughout your day. Write your agenda down; use a planner if that is helpful. Remember not to think of these undertakings as measly chores. Instead, maintain positive thinking and remind yourself that you have set a goal to become more productive this Ramadan. In sha Allah, every effort you put forth for the sake of pleasing Allah (glorified and exalted be He) will be generously rewarded. </div>
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It is necessary and preferred for us male and female Muslims to take good care of our God-given physical health and our bodies. It can be much harder for women who are menstruating to feel motivated to get up and do a quick workout. This lack of enthusiasm is no excuse to let our physical health slide. Even if an individual has never had an exercise regimen before, it is never too late to start. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;">1. Start by Trying out Different Workout Techniques</span></div>
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Are you more of a pilates or aerobics person? Do you prefer treadmills and elliptical machines? Or are you into cardio and lifting weights? </div>
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No one expects you to be a professional during your first attempt. It will take some getting used to. Try going to the gym (or working out right at home) for maybe two or three times in the first week. Do your total regimen for only a few minutes (or longer if you feel you are able). Then increase your total workout time by 5-10 minutes every day.For every following week, try going for more than just 2-3 days. Try and do your workouts around a similar time frame — this can be in the early morning hours or in the evening hours between Maghrib and Isha (after iftar and before the taraweeh prayers). Do whatever fits your schedule best. Performing your workout routines around a similar time frame makes it easier for it to become a habit. And once it becomes habitual, stick to it. </div>
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In order to continue feeling motivated, give yourself some incentives. Remind yourself of how good it feels to be physically proactive and in shape, and how wholesome it feels to take care of your physical health! Read up about the dangers of obesity. Keep in mind that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) also discouraged laziness and encouraged physical productivity.Psychologists have proven over and over again that regular exercise and physical health can do wonders for a person’s mental health. Those who partake in consistent physical activity tend to be happier, less depressed, and less anxious. Just ask any psychologist, and they will concur! </div>
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Even if us Muslimahs cannot pray the five daily salah or engage in ritual fasting due to reasons of impurity, there are multiple acts that can still be performed during the Holy Month of Ramadan for the sake of pleasing Allah (glorified and exalted be He). Since being exempted from praying and fasting gives us a bit of extra time and energy, we can spend that blessed time and energy performing other essential acts of worship: </div>
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The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) had said to his daughter Fatimah (may Allāh be pleased with her) when she complained that her hands were blistering from doing housework, <span style="color: blue;">“When the two of you lay down to sleep, say thirty-three, thirty-three, thirty-four, or At-Tahmid, At-Tasbih, and At-Takbir.”</span> [Sahih]</div>
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When getting ready for bed, before going to sleep, count on your fingers and say Subhan Allah 33 times, Alhamdulillah 33 times, and Allahu Akbar 34 times. In sha Allah, this can help you be more productive in your work as it did for Fatimah (may Allāh be pleased with her).Try to do this every night before bed, and focus your mind on Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and his many blessings. Clearing your mind before bed can initiate pleasant thoughts and a good night’s sleep. Praising and remembering Allah (glorified and exalted be He) with concentration only adds to the benefits and rewards.</div>
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Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said,<span style="color: blue;"> "Whoever says, ‘Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi,’ one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea”</span> [Sahih Al-Bukhari]</div>
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So, in the morning or in the evening, make it a habit to say Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi 100 times. Whether you are driving somewhere, doing household chores, or if you just need five more minutes in the morning before getting out of bed, be sure to glorify and praise Allah (glorified and exalted be He). Do this with a clear and focused mind. This will help in truly acknowledging the oneness of Allah and His numerous blessings. Additionally, it can count as productive time well spent. </div>
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Just because we can’t pray or fast, does not mean we cannot make dua either. Dua is the tool of a believer, a tool that he or she can use to ask Allah (glorified and exalted be He) for anything. Since being excused from prayer gives us extra time, lets use this sacred time to make dua to Allah (glorified and exalted be He).Continually making dua helps to instill hope in a believer. Dua reminds us that there is a Supreme Being, much higher than us, who is always available to listen and to help us. Just knowing this, how can we not be making dua all the time? Also, since the last third of the night is one of the best times to make dua, we have further incentive to wake up during these blessed early hours.</div>
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As Abu Hurairah narrated, <span style="color: blue;">“Our Lord who is blessed and exalted descends every night to the lowest heaven when the last one-third of the night remains, and says: Who supplicated Me so that I may answer him ? Who asks of Me so that I may give to him ? Who asks My forgiveness so that I may forgive him?”</span> [Sunan Abi Dawud] </div>
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Lastly, a Muslimah can spend her precious time during this Ramadan increasing her knowledge of Islam. Technology is grand; we have valid and interesting Islamic lectures right at our fingertips.From YouTube and HalalTube, to audio and video Podcasts and online articles — there are numerous Islamic resources we can increase our knowledge with, In sha Allah. Isn’t this be better than being bored and lazy or watching pointless videos on the internet? The best part is, one can listen to these lectures at any time – while driving, while lying down, while doing chores, and any other time that is convenient for you. </div>
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<span style="color: purple;"><b>Enjoy a Productive Ramadan!</b></span></div>
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Remember, any action that we perform, if done solely for the sake of pleasing Allah (glorified and exalted be He), can be deemed worthy of our time. Even when we are not praying or fasting, just look at the countless other acts of ibadah that we are able to do this Ramadan.</div>
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It is indeed our duty as believers to spend our blessed time for the sake of Allah (glorified and exalted be He). And every good deed or action that we perform during Ramadan is multiplied up to 70 times. All it requires is some motivation, dedication, and persistence.</div>
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Improve yourself and your day by performing some extra acts of productivity for the sake of Allah (glorified and exalted be He). Whatever extra act(s) of worship you decide to do, remember that it will help you immensely if you follow a schedule. Make it routine, turn it into a habit, and stick with it even beyond Ramadan!</div>
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Lastly, don’t try to feel like you have to do everything at once. This can overwhelm you and make it harder for you to stick to a consistent routine. Take joy in the blessing that even small deeds performed consistently hold great rewards, for it is said that, <span style="color: blue;">“The most beloved deed to Allah is the most regular and constant even though it were little.”</span> [Sahih Al-Bukhari]</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Author: Afia T</span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-13146194618720965272014-06-23T22:44:00.000+08:002015-08-15T22:46:00.124+08:0013 Perkara Yang Perlu Dijaga Oleh Wanita.<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="color: purple;">1. Bulu kening</span> – Menurut Bukhari, Rasullulah melaknat perempuan yang mencukur atau menipiskan bulu kening atau meminta supaya dicukurkan bulu kening.(Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Abu Daud Fi Fathil Bari.)</div>
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<span style="color: purple;">5. Gigi </span>– Rasullulah melaknat perempuan yang mengikir gigi atau meminta supaya dikikirkan giginya – (Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat At-Thabrani) Dilaknat perempuan yang menjarangkan giginya supaya menjadi cantik, yang merubah ciptaan Allah.(Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim.)</div>
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<span style="color: purple;">9. Mata</span> – Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan mukmin hendaklah mereka menundukkan sebahagian dari pemandangannya. (Petikan dari Surah An Nur Ayat 31)Sabda Nabi Muhamad SAW, Jangan sampai pandangan yang satu mengikuti pandangan lainnya. Kamu hanya boleh pandangan yang pertama sahaja manakala pandangan seterusnya tidak dibenarkan hukumnya haram.(Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Ahmad, Abu Daud dan Tirmidzi.)</div>
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<span style="color: purple;">10. Mulut (suara)</span> – Janganlah perempuan-perempuan itu terlalu lunak dalam berbicara sehingga berkeinginan orang yang ada perasaan serong dalam hatinya, tetapi ucapkanlah perkataan-perkataan yang baik (Petikan dari Surah Al Ahzab Ayat 32.)Sabda SAW, Sesungguhnya akan ada umat ku yang minum arak yang mereka namakan dengan yang lain, iaitu kepala mereka dilalaikan oleh bunyi-bunyian (muzik) dan penyanyi perempuan, maka Allah akan tenggelamkan mereka itu dalam bumi.(Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Ibn Majah.)</div>
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<span style="color: purple;">11. Kemaluan</span> – Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan-perempuan mukmin, hendaklah mereka menundukkan pandangan mereka dan menjaga kehormatan mereka.(Petikan dari Surah An Nur Ayat 31.)Apabila seorang perempuan itu solat lima waktu, puasa di bulan Ramadan, menjaga kehormatannya dan mentaati suaminya, maka masuklah ia ke dalam Syurga daripada pintu-pintu yang ia kehendakinya. (Hadis Riwayat Riwayat Al Bazzar.)Tiada seorang perempuanpun yang membuka pakaiannya bukan di rumah suaminya, melainkan dia telah membinasakan tabir antaranya dengan Allah.(Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Tirmidzi, Abu Daud dan Ibn Majah.)</div>
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<span style="color: purple;">12. Pakaian</span> – Barangsiapa memakai pakaian yang berlebih-lebihan terutama yang menjolok mata , maka Allah akan memberikan pakaian kehinaan di hari akhirat nanti.(Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Ahmad, Abu D , An Nasaii dan Ibn Majah.)Petikan dari Surah Al Ahzab Ayat 59. Bermaksud : Hai nabi-nabi katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak perempuanmu dan isteri-isteri orang mukmin, hendaklah mereka memakai baju jilbab (baju labuh dan longgar) yang demikian itu supaya mereka mudah diken ali . Lantaran itu mereka tidak diganggu. Allah maha pengampun lagi maha penyayang.Sesungguhnya sebilangan ahli Neraka ialah perempuan-perempuan yang berpakaian tetapi telanjang yang condong pada maksiat dan menarik orang lain untuk melakukan maksiat. Mereka tidak akan masuk Syurga dan tidak akan mencium baunya. (Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim) Keterangan : Wanita yang berpakaian tipis/jarang, ketat/ membentuk dan berbelah/membuka bahagian-bahagian tertentu.</div>
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<span style="color: purple;">13. Rambut</span> – Wahai anakku Fatimah! Adapun perempuan-perempuan yang akan digantung rambutnya hingga mendidih otaknya dalam Neraka adalah mereka itu di dunia tidak mahu menutup rambutnya daripada dilihat oleh lelaki yang bukan mahramnya.(Petikan dari Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim.)Riwayat Imran bin Hushain ra.:Bahwa Rasulullah saw. bersabda: Sesungguhnya penghuni syurga yang paling sedikit adalah kaum wanita. (Shahih Muslim No.4921)</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Author: araaz</span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-63579225018353534862014-06-12T12:17:00.000+08:002015-08-16T12:22:03.476+08:00Ramadan Countdown: Are You Ready For Ramadhan?<div style="text-align: justify;">
With only a few weeks and days left for the start of Ramadan, it is very important for all Muslims, new Muslims and born Muslims, to get ready for this important event.</div>
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Ramadan is not only about abstaining from food, drink and intimate relations from dawn till sunset, but a blessed month of worship, obedience and total submission to God.</div>
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For such an important moral and spiritual journey, we need to prepare to nurture our heart, soul, and mind.</div>
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Fasting is called sawm in the Qur’an. The word sawm literally means "to abstain". In Surah Maryam, Allah tells that Mary the mother of Jesus said, <span style="color: blue;">“I have vowed a fast (sawm) for the sake of the Merciful, so today I shall not speak to anyone.”</span> (Maryam 19:26) The meaning is <span style="color: blue;">“I have vowed to abstain from speaking to anyone today.”</span> According to Shari ‘ah, the word sawm means to abstain from all those things that are forbidden during fasting from the break of dawn to the sunset, and to do this with the intention of fasting.</div>
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The Qur’an says what means, <span style="color: blue;">"O you who believe, fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those who were before you, in order that you may learn taqwa (piety)"</span> (Al-Baqarah 2:183). </div>
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Taqwa is a very important spiritual and ethical term of the Qur’an. It is the sum total of all Islamic spirituality and ethics. It is a quality in a believer’s life that keeps him/her aware of Allah all the time. A person who has taqwa loves to do good and to avoid evil for the sake of Allah. Taqwa is piety, righteousness and consciousness of Allah. Taqwa requires patience and perseverance. Fasting teaches patience, and with patience one can rise to the high position of taqwa. </div>
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The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said that fasting is a shield. It protects a person from sin and lustful desires. When the disciples of Jesus asked him how to cast the evil spirits away, he is reported to have said, <span style="color: blue;">“But this kind never comes out except by prayer and fasting.”</span> (Matthew 17:21).</div>
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According to Imam Al-Ghazali (d. 1111 C.E.), fasting produces a semblance of divine quality of samadiyyah (freedom from want) in a human being. Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim (d. 1350 C.E.), viewed fasting as a means of releasing the human spirit from the clutches of desire, thus allowing moderation to prevail in the carnal self. Imam Shah Waliullah Dahlawi (d. 1762 C.E.) viewed fasting as a means of weakening the bestial and reinforcing the angelic elements in human beings. Maulana Mawdudi (d. 1979 C.E.) emphasized that fasting for a full month every year trains a person individually, and the Muslim community as a whole, in piety and self restraint.</div>
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<b><span style="color: purple;">Fasting Is Obligatory</span></b></div>
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In the second year of Hijrah, Muslims were commanded to fast in the month of Ramadan every year. The Qur’an says what means, <span style="color: blue;">"O you who believe, fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those who were before you, in order that you may learn taqwa (piety)"</span> (Al-Baqarah 2:183) and <span style="color: blue;">"The month of Ramadan is that in which was revealed the Qur’an, wherein is guidance for mankind and the clear signs of guidance and distinction. Thus whosoever among you witness the month must fast..."</span> (Al-Baqarah 2:184).</div>
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The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) explained this further in a number of his statements reported in the books of Hadith. It is reported by Imam Al-Bukhari and Imam Muslim on the authority of Ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah said, <span style="color: blue;">“Islam is built upon five pillars: testifying that there is no god except Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, performing Prayer, paying the zakah, making the pilgrimage to the Sacred House (Hajj), and fasting the month of Ramadan.”</span></div>
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The Muslim Ummah is unanimous that fasting in the month of Ramadan is obligatory upon every person who is capable (mukallaf).</div>
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God says:</div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"The month of Ramadan in which was revealed the Qur’an, a guidance for mankind, and clear proofs of the guidance, and the Criterion (of right and wrong). And whosoever of you is present, let him fast the month, and whosoever of you is sick or on a journey, (let him fast the same) number of other days. Allah desires for you ease; He desires not hardship for you; and (He desires) that ye should complete the period, and that ye should magnify Allah for having guided you, and that peradventure ye may be thankful."</span> (Al-Baqarah 2:185)</div>
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In order to reach our destination, this folder provides a collection of useful resources to warm up and get ready to reap the benefits of the best month of the year.</div>
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May it be a blessed month for all.</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Source: http://www.onislam.net/english/ </span></i></div>
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If there is anything that encapsulates and signifies the presence of life, it is a heartquake. </div>
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A heartquake is the tremor you feel in your heart when something touches your soul, and stirs the very core of your being. When something penetrates so deep beyond your physical existence into the vast expanse of your soul, that it causes a shift in your innermost being and sends an echo of life rippling through the epicenter of your heart, making you physically tremble. It knocks the breath out of you, and leaves you unable to speak. </div>
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Heartquakes originate from the most intense human experiences: overwhelming grief, real love, peaking passion, profound truth, sincere faith, enlightenment, insurmountable loss, crippling fear, terrifying horror, breathtaking beauty, extreme inhumanity. </div>
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When was the last time you felt one? </div>
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When was the last time your heart trembled in awe of your Creator, marveling at His power and majesty? </div>
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<span style="color: blue;">“The true believers are those who, when Allah´s name is mentioned, their hearts tremble in awe, and when His verses are recited to them their faith grows, and who put their trust in their Lord.”</span> [Qur’an: 8:2] </div>
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When was the last time you felt an embrace of real love that made you tremble
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When was the last time a truth so profound struck you that you had to look for
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When did you last see something so beautiful that you were overcome with
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When did you last feel your heart burst with the agony of loss? </div>
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When did you last see oppression in the eyes, till your heart was rattling with
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When did you last reach a level of astounding awareness that shook you
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When did your heart wrench last, at the sight of a bleeding child? </div>
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When did your heart scream last as it witnessed utter barbarity? </div>
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When was the last time you were alive? </div>
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dugaan yang cukup untuk membuatkanmu tabah,<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Kata-kata yang diucapkan pada tempatnya dapat meredakan ketegangan.<br />Kata-kata yang penuh cinta dapat menyembuhkan dan membawa berkat.</span>♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-34504757073696768802014-05-19T11:47:00.000+08:002014-07-06T16:11:58.463+08:00Keunggulan MukminahAku ingin menjadi SITI KHADIJAH<br />
menjalin agung sebuah cinta<br />
menafkahkan hartanya fisabilillah<br />
aku ingin sezuhud FATIMAH<br />
akur tanpa jelak setiap perintah<br />
aku mengagumi dan mahukan<br />
gedung ilmu SITI AISHAH<br />
aku ingin menyelami ketabahan SITI HAJAR<br />
menggendong puteranya yang masih merah<br />
di tanah padang pasir yang merekah<br />
bukannya aku ingin menjadi wanita penggoda<br />
fitrah daripada sejarah SITI ZULAIKHA<br />
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pun jiwaku ingin sekudus RABIATUL ADAWIYAH<br />
tenggelam asyik dalam kenikmatan ubudiah<br />
biar tersingkap segala hijab<br />
dua cinta takkan bersatu dalam satu hati<br />
lantas ku serah cinta ini<br />
untuk yang MAHA MENGASIHI<br />
pasrahku pada mennah perjuangan<br />
bagai cekalnya hati ZAINAB AL-GHAZALI<br />
terluka, terseksa, terpenjara<br />
terkurung jasadnya di celahan jeriji kaku<br />
teguh istiqamah menjunjung aqidah dakwah<br />
demi islam bukannya menyerah galang-gantinya<br />
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atau setidaknya aku mengimpikan<br />
hidup semulia MARYAM JAMEELAH<br />
berteman pena menongkah arus kepayahan<br />
ruh jihad ini perlu disemarakkan<br />
dan biarlah aku yang menyemarakkannya<br />
redhalah aku...redhalah aku<br />
redhalah aku menjadi sayap kiri perjuangan<br />
kan ku teguh menatang serikandi ummah<br />
hanya kerana islam merindui<br />
kemunculan peribadi<br />
mukminah, muslimah, mujahadah<br />
yang rela mati dalam keunggulan iman<br />
terpanggung gagah bagai harumnya pusara MASYITAH<br />
TIKA ITU ISLAM KAN KU DAULATKAN..♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-24644169971501943392014-05-13T16:05:00.000+08:002014-07-06T16:06:05.222+08:00It is more blessed to give than to receive<div style="text-align: justify;">
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The student turned to the professor saying: "Let us play a trick on the man: we will hide his shoes and conceal ourselves behind those bushes and wait to see his response when he cannot find them".</div>
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"My young friend" answered the professor, "we should never amuse ourselves at the expense of the poor. You are rich and may give yourself a much greater pleasure by the means of this poor man. Put a coin in each shoe and then we will hide and watch how this affects him".</div>
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So it was and they hid behind some bushes. The poor man finished his work and came to the path where he had left his coat and shoes. While putting his coat on he slipped his foot into one of his shoes. Feeling something hard he stooped down to feel what it was and he found a coin.</div>
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Astonishment and wonder were upon his face. He gazed at the coin, turned it around and around looking at it again and again. He then looked all around but could see no one. He put the money in his pocket and proceeded to put the other shoe on; but his surprise was doubled on finding the other coin.</div>
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His feelings overcame him; he fell upon his knees, looked up to heaven and uttered aloud a fervent thanksgiving in which he spoke of his wife, sick and helpless and his children without bread whom this timely bounty from some unknown hand would save from perishing.</div>
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The student stood there deeply affected and tears filled his eyes. "Now" said the professor – are you not much better pleased than if you had played your trick?"</div>
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The youth replied, "You have taught me a lesson which I will never forget. I feel now the truth of these words, which I never understood before: "It is more blessed to give than to receive".</div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"And whatever you spend for spendings (e.g., in Sadaqah – charity, etc. for Allâh’s Cause) or whatever vow you make, be sure Allâh knows it all. And for the Zâlimûn (wrong-doers, etc.) there are no helpers.."</span> (Al-Baqarah 2:270)</div>
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<span style="color: blue;">"Kind words and forgiving of faults are better than Sadaqah (charity) followed by injury. And Allâh is Rich (Free of all wants) </span><span style="color: blue;">and He is Most-Forbearing"</span>. (Al-Baqarah 2:263)</div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-28290220436172104202014-05-08T12:38:00.000+08:002014-07-06T16:01:11.620+08:00Iman vs Nafsu<div style="text-align: justify;">
Saya suka sangat tengok jari-jemari teman wanita saya, cantik betul. Sungguh! Sampai saya takut nak pegang. Bukan takut jari-jemarinya patah, tapi takut nanti jari-jemari kami tak boleh saling bantu-membantu di satu hari yang amat dahsyat di hadapan Yang Maha Esa.</div>
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Saya suka sangat tengok rambutnya. Cantik betullah, sungguh! Sebab itu saya belikan dia tudung. Bukan sebab cemburu orang lain tengok, bukan! Tapi sebab saya mahu rambutnya sentiasa ditutup macam dalam iklan dot dot dot itu sampai bila-bila! Takut nanti dibakar dek api neraka, di suatu hari yang amat dahsyat di hadapan Yang Maha Pencipta!</div>
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Saya suka sangat tengok body teman wanita saya, solid betul. Sungguh! Sebab itu saya belikan dia telekung supaya masa dating dengan Kekasih dia Yang Utama, dia jaaaaaauh lebih cantik dan berseri menghadap-Nya. Saya pun tumpang dapat pahala! Syoknya!</div>
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Saya sedih sangat bila tengok teman wanita saya tidak tidur, tidak makan sebab rindukan saya. Saya pun macam tu juga. Si dia tanya, Apa ubatnya, bang? Saya pun bagi dia al-Quran sebagai penenang jiwa! Semoga dia cintakan-Nya lebih daripada saya..</div>
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Saya sedih tengok dia selalu pesan macam-macam. Makan, minum, jaga diri, pandu kereta elok-elok! Nanti awak saya juga yang susah hati, bla lah bla bla. Tapi bila tengok wayang sama-sama, terlepas Asar dan Maghrib bagitu saja, dia tidak kata satu apa pun. Aduuuuh! berdosanya saya!</div>
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Saya memang sayang sangat pada dia. Saya mahu jumpa dia, bersama dia, cinta secinta-cintanya. Cinta yang abadi di dunia dan berkasih sayang di akhirat, berdating di syurga kerana di situlah tempat yang kekal selama-lamanya...</div>
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KERANA CINTA YANG HAKIKI ITU HANYALAH PADA ILAHI....</div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-21943584521774197232014-05-04T10:45:00.000+08:002014-07-06T15:56:09.362+08:00Surat Dari Wanita<div style="text-align: justify;">
Aku bukanlah seorang gadis yang cerewet dalam memilih<br />
pasangan hidup. Siapalah diriku ini untuk memilih<br />
berlian sedangkan aku hanya hanyalah sebutir pasir<br />
yang wujud di mana-mana. Tetapi, aku juga punyai<br />
keinginan seperti gadis lain dilamar lelaki yang bakal<br />
dinobat sebagi ahli syurga, memimpinku ke arah tuju<br />
yang satu.<br />
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Tidak perlu kau memiliki wajah seindah Nabi Yusuf a.s.<br />
yang mampu mendebarkan jutaan gadis untuk membuatku<br />
terpikat. Andainya kaulah jodohku yang tertulis di luh<br />
mahfuz, Allah pasti akan mencampakkan rasa kasih di<br />
dalam hatiku, jua hatimu, kali pertama kita<br />
berpandangan. Itu janji Allah. Akan tetapi selagi kita<br />
tidak diikat dengan ikatan yang sah, selagi itu jangan<br />
kau zahirkan perasaan itu kepadaku, kerana kau masih<br />
tidak mempunyai hak untuk membuat begitu. Juga jangan<br />
kau lampaui batasan yang telah ditetapkan syara'. Aku<br />
takut perlakuan itu akan memberi impak yang tidak baik<br />
dalam kehidupan kita kelak.<br />
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Permintaanku tidak banyak, cukuplah dirimu yang menjadi harta buatku<br />
sekiranya harta itu membuatkan aku dan kau lupa<br />
tanggungjawabmu. Aku tidak akan sekali-kali bahagia<br />
melihatmu begitu. Biarlah kita hidup di bawah jaminan<br />
Allah sepenuhnya. Itu lebih bermakna bagiku.<br />
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Andai satu hari nanti<br />
Kita ditakdirkan bersama<br />
Melayari bahtera kehidupan<br />
Usah kau impikan selaut sutera keindahan<br />
Usah kau igaukan kasih yang mengunung tanpa puncak<br />
Juga usah kau harapkan<br />
Kesempurnaan diri ini<br />
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Aku bukan Siti Khadijah<br />
Mahupun permata Siti Fatimah<br />
Aku bukan Siti Aisyah<br />
Mahupun Ummul Mukminin lain<br />
Bukan juga Rabiatul Adawiyah<br />
Wanita sufi terpuji<br />
Juga tidak mencapai martabat Siti Maryam<br />
Masyitah, Asiah, Sumaiyah<br />
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Mengertilah dengan waras keislaman<br />
Aku hanyalah wanita akhir zaman<br />
Yang masih cuba mempertahankan maruah<br />
Dan kesucian diri sebagai muslimah<br />
Berlandaskan garisannya<br />
Dalam mengharungi kegawatan masa kini<br />
Yang serba palsu dan penuh onak diri<br />
Dengan kemampuan sekuman cuma<br />
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Demi keranaNya semata<br />
Tidak kutagih apa-apa darimu<br />
Cuma kupohon sebuah pengertian<br />
Dan kasih sayang suci<br />
Bahawa aku adalah amanat untukmu<br />
Andai ditakdirkan kita bersama</div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-19564873829832089682014-04-30T15:51:00.000+08:002014-07-06T15:53:44.599+08:00Maintaining Productive Friendships and Relations<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Much of our lives are spent interacting with family, friends and co-workers. All of these relationships are governed by codes of conduct, and the most important rule for a Muslim to follow in maintaining them is having ‘taqwa’ (being ever conscious of God).</div>
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If we try our best to acquire a higher state of taqwa in our hearts, we will analyze our every action to ensure that what we do is pleasing to Allah (glorified and exalted be He) and that we maintain our relations with others in the best manner possible.</div>
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Maintaining good company cannot be overstated as it plays a pivotal role in shaping who you are and influences you to choose either the straight path or a destructive one. It is important to reflect on the company that you keep both at work and in your leisure time.</div>
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Allah (glorified and exalted be He) says in the Qur’an:</div>
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“And (remember) the Day when the wrong-doer will bite his hands and say: Woe to me! Would that I had taken a path with the Messenger. Woe to me! If only I had not taken so-and-so as a friend! He has led me astray from this Reminder (the Qur’an) after it had come to me. And Satan is ever a deserter to man in the hour of need.” [Qur’an: Chapter 25, Verses 27-29]</div>
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A Muslim who befriends another who prays five times a day is more likely to follow suit and pray with him. Similarly, befriending those who have bad habits will cause one to adopt their habits due to their constant presence and influence.</div>
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In an authentic Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said:</div>
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“The example of a good companion and a bad companion is like that of the seller of musk, and the one who blows the blacksmith’s bellows. So as for the seller of musk then either he will grant you some, or you buy some from him, or at least you enjoy a pleasant smell from him. As for the one who blows the blacksmith’s bellows then either he will burn your clothes or you will get an offensive smell from him.” [Muslim]</div>
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In his commentary of this Hadith, Imam an-Nawawi said that the Prophet (PBUH) compared a good companion to a seller of musk and spoke of the virtue of having companions who are good, who have noble manners, piety, knowledge and good culture. Such are those who grant us from their virtue. And he (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) forbade us to sit with those who do evil, commit a lot of sins and other bad deeds, as well as with innovators, backbiters, and so forth. Another scholar said: “Keeping good company with the pious results in attainment of beneficial knowledge, noble manners and righteous actions, whereas keeping company with the wicked prevents all of that.”</div>
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<b><span style="color: purple;">Tips to Maintain Good Company</span></b></div>
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Life in this world is short and soon we have to answer for our every action, including the company we keep. Ask yourself: is the company you are currently keeping diverting you from Islam or keeping you on the straight path?</div>
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Here are some ways in which you can maintain productive ties in your life:</div>
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<li>Keeping the Hereafter in mind, we should prioritize befriending righteous and virtuous individuals who will help us stay on the straight path. Inevitably, throughout life, there will be people in our environment from various backgrounds and those who do not share our values and aims in life. We should respect all individuals regardless of their background, but ensure that we are in the company of those who will help us stay on the straight path and not divert us away from the path of Allah s.w.t.</li>
<li>Respect everyone at home and at work. Deal with everyone kindly and justly. Allah s.w.t. has created us all with different personalities, qualities and character traits and therefore there may be times when we do not share the same opinions with our fellow sisters and brothers. Yet, Allah s.w.t. is All-Merciful and if we maintain good relationships with our family and friends, adhering to the principles of Islam we can ensure that we are on the right track to a rewarding afterlife.</li>
<li>Listen to people attentively. Pay attention when someone is speaking to you and make sure you gather the full extent of their message. Give sincere advice that will benefit them, but do not rush to do so in an overbearing manner. Abu Hurayra said, <span style="color: blue;">“When he (the Prophet (PBUH)) faced someone, he faced him completely. When he turned away, he turned away completely. I have never seen anyone like him and I will never see anyone like them.”</span> [Al-Adab Al-Mufrad]</li>
<li> Give gifts frequently. You don’t need a reason to exchange presents. Surprise your friends and loved ones by doing something nice every so often! Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet (PBUH) said, <span style="color: blue;">“Give gifts and you will love one another.”</span> [Al-Adab Al-Mufrad]</li>
<li>Keep in touch with friends and relatives by visiting or calling to inquire about their well-being. Be there for them, at least by way of moral support during times of hardship. Accept their invitations and invite them in return. Thauban, the freed slave of Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him), reported that Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) said: <span style="color: blue;">“He who visits the sick continues to remain in the fruit garden of Paradise until he returns”</span>. [Sahih Muslim]</li>
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As the saying goes, it is better to be alone than to fall into bad company. So if you are unable to find good companionship, keep yourself from falling under negative influences by engaging in other productive activities by yourself.</div>
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Insha’Allah I hope that we all can maintain fruitful relations which will benefit us in this life and the next and most importantly please Allah s.w.t.</div>
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<i><span style="color: magenta;">Author: Tasnim Nazeer (ProductiveMuslim.com)</span></i></div>
♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-75920403387790507282014-04-27T15:42:00.000+08:002014-07-06T15:43:08.770+08:00Kasih Dan Cinta Dalam Islam"Syair Arab menyebut, apabila seseorang yang<br />
bercinta di tanya, "Apakah kau menyintai atau<br />
sedang bercinta dengannya?", maka<br />
dijawabnya, "Oh, tidak...kawan sahaja atau apa<br />
sahaja alasannya," Ketahuilah dia seorang<br />
pasangan KAZZAB (penipu)"<br />
______________________________________<br />
<br />
"...Rasa hormat adalah asas penting menjalin<br />
hubungan cinta yang suci sesuai dengan aturan<br />
Allah swt. Hormat kepada perintah Allah, ajaran<br />
Rasul serta hormat ke atas hak dan maruah di<br />
antara pasangan amat dititik beratkan ke arah<br />
satu hubungan yang berkekalan.<br />
<br />
Seorang lelaki yang jujur terhadap cinta dan kasih<br />
sayang yang terjalin terhadap seorang wanita<br />
tidak sewenang-wenangnya menyentuh tangan<br />
wanita atau memegang erat tubuhnya. Wanita<br />
bukannya objek yang boleh diperalatkan.<br />
<br />
Jika ini terjadi, seorang wanita perlu berfikir,<br />
apakah pasangan seperti ini mampu melindungi<br />
dan menjaga maruahnya apabila berkahwin<br />
nanti?<br />
<br />
Jika hari ini haknya tergadai kerana seorang yang<br />
dinamakan kekasih, apa kesudahan yang bakal<br />
berlaku satu hari nanti?..."<br />
______________________________________<br />
<br />
Istilah cinta amat popular dan menjadi satu<br />
ungkapan setia di bibir-bibir remaja yang<br />
menganggapnya satu kalimah suci dan bererti.<br />
<br />
Ada yang berbangga memiliki seorang kekasih<br />
yang setia dan mula memasang angan-angan<br />
untuk mendirikan rumah tangga bersama<br />
pasangan pilihan.<br />
<br />
Fanomena ini berlanjutan dari bangku sekolah<br />
lagi malah adakalanya membawa kepada<br />
sesuatu di luar jangkauan<br />
<br />
Cinta perlu difahami. Semestinya seorang remaja<br />
perlu memahami kehendak dan definisi yang<br />
tepat.<br />
<br />
Tanya pada diri, sama ada cinta hanya sekadar<br />
gelojak perasaan serta rasa tertarik antara satu<br />
sama lain cukup untuk menjelaskan maksudnya?<br />
<br />
Di dalam artikel bertajuk Hakikat Percintaan<br />
Dalam Islam, rasa hati yang dinamakan cinta<br />
merupakan satu perasaan yang semulajadi di<br />
alami oleh setiap insan baik muda mahupun tua.<br />
<br />
Allah telah menganugerahkan manusia naluri<br />
untuk meneruskan keturunan (salah satunya,<br />
menyukai pasangan berlainan jantina) atau<br />
dikenali dengan gharizah Al-Nau'.<br />
<br />
Ini merupakan salah satu naluri manusia dari yang<br />
tiga iaitu gharizah Al-baqa' (naluri untuk<br />
meneruskan kehidupan dan mempertahankan),<br />
gharizah Al-Tadayyun (naluri untuk menyembah<br />
dan beragama) dan gharizah Al-Nau'.<br />
<br />
Jadi adanya perasaan itu sememangnya sudah<br />
fitrah manusia dan perkara ini wajar dan tidak<br />
haram di sisi Islam.<br />
<br />
Dalam keadaan ini, manusia perlu memahami<br />
kedudukan cintanya dan ke mana hala tuju<br />
seterusnya.<br />
<br />
Malangnya remaja hilang punca dan meletakkan<br />
satu kesimpulan yang mudah tentang hakikat<br />
cinta.<br />
<br />
Cinta perlu difahami sebagai satu rasa kasih<br />
sayang yang penuh rasa hormat, tanggungjawab,<br />
kesetiaan, komitmen, keikhlasan, bermaruah dan<br />
ada matlamat.<br />
<br />
Jika ciri-ciri ini tidak ada dalam apa yang<br />
dikatakan sebagai cinta, maka hubungan<br />
sedemikian sekadar satu permainan dan kepura-<br />
puraan sahaja.<br />
<br />
Konsep cinta dalam Islam meletakkan satu aturan<br />
yang sistematik dan teratur tanpa mengabaikan<br />
hubungan antara manusia dan Allah.<br />
<br />
Atas dasar ini, Islam meletakkan cinta pada satu<br />
kedudukan yang bermaruah dan bernilai baik bagi<br />
pihak lelaki dan perempuan.<br />
<br />
Ke mana hala tujunya destinasi cinta remaja?<br />
Adakah setakat mengisi usia remaja dan<br />
adakalanya putus di tengah jalan?<br />
<br />
Mungkin destinasi cinta remaja yang diingini lebih<br />
kepada konsep ala Barat yang disifatkan penuh<br />
romantis dan indah.<br />
<br />
Mulianya cinta berlandaskan Islam kerana cinta<br />
yang dibina bermatlamat. Kerana ingin mendapat<br />
kasih sayang tuhan, manusia sedia berkongsi<br />
rasa cinta dan kasih sayang sesama insan.<br />
<br />
Kerana inginkan kasih sayang tuhan jualah,<br />
masing-masing ingin selamat-menyelamatkan<br />
antara satu sama lain dari segi hubungan dan<br />
kehidupan di dunia untuk mengejar sesuatu yang<br />
abadi di akhirat.<br />
<br />
Cinta yang dibina bukan cinta kosong tetapi cinta<br />
yang punya pengertian yang luhur dan hanya<br />
dapat dirasakan dengan jiwa yang bersih yang<br />
sentiasa mencari tuhan.♥Fitnunnisak♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/00726052787166753639noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778614038906496100.post-63285549537841992202014-04-22T14:22:00.000+08:002014-07-06T15:41:27.451+08:00Dialog Cinta Zaman Sains dan Teknologi<link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUser%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml" rel="File-List"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUser%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx" rel="themeData"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUser%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml" rel="colorSchemeMapping"></link><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> 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<span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Kasihku, ketumpatan cintaku padamu ialah jisim hatiku di bahagi isipadu jantungku. Masihkah kau tidak membuat sebarang anggapan?? </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau :</span> Aku tidak percaya kepadamu kerana kau ada kekasih baru untuk menjalankan tindak balas penggantian ke atas diriku. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Kau jangan salah ertikan kecerunan garis lurus hatiku ini, kerana aku dan dia masih lagi unsur dan bukannya sebatian. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau</span><span style="color: #3366ff;"> :</span> Tapi, aku berasa seperti kasihmu berkadar songsang dengan kesetiaan yg kuberikan.</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Tapi, cintaku padamu adalah pemalar!</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau</span><span style="color: #3366ff;"> : </span>Aku masih belum mengerti lagi kerana penyelesaian yang kau berikan masih lagi belum sahih. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Tapi, aku mengamalkan hukum newton ketiga di mana tindak balas cintaku bersamaan dengan cinta yg kau berikan.</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau</span><span style="color: #3366ff;"> :</span> Kau jangan bohong! Aku telah mengetahui bahawa kau adalah 'random' yg mempunyai janji-janji manis yg bergerak secara rawak.</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Itu adalah fitnah yg telah tersebar melaui proses pencaran dan perolakan. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau</span><span style="color: #3366ff;"> : </span>Tetapi, mengapa kau membuat tempoh perkahwinan kita mengalami rintangan?</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Aku harus menggunakan perintang boleh laras untuk mengurangkan rintangan itu. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau </span><span style="color: #3366ff;">:</span> Adakah kita akan berpadu secara kimia?</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku :</span> Itu masih belum diketahui, tetapi hasilnya nanti dapat dilihat dengan menggunakan mikroskop cahaya. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau </span><span style="color: #3366ff;">:</span> Aku khuatir kau akan bertemu dengan yg lebih aktif dan bertindak balas dengannya.</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Nampaknya, kita sedang bercinta tiga segi dan haruslah menggunakan hukum-hukum penyelesaian segi tiga untuk menyelesaikannya.</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau </span><span style="color: #3366ff;">: </span>Tapi, aku telah memberi cintaku dalam magnitud dan arahnya sekali. Masihkah kau tidak percaye? </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Ya, aku percaye. Tetapi aku mahu semua itu dalam bentuk lazim. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau </span><span style="color: #3366ff;">: </span>Itu semua boleh diabaikan, yang aku mahu ialah tempoh perkahwinan kita harus mengalami pecutan yg seragam.</div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku :</span> Kau harus bersabar, kerana sabar itu 0.5 dari iman. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau </span><span style="color: #3366ff;">: </span>Tapi, imanku adalah infiniti! </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku :</span> Aku tidak fikir yang iman kau infiniti kerana kau blum mendarabkannya dengan 6x10'23. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau </span><span style="color: #3366ff;">:</span> Kau membuat kemarahanku meruap-ruap. Nanti bila tekanan ku melebihi tekanan udara, kau jugak yg susah kerana aku akan mengalami hemolisis. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #cc0000;">Aku : </span>Aku sekarang bukan aku yg dulu lagi, aku telah mengalami plasmolis. </div>
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<br /><span style="color: #3366ff;">Kau </span><span style="color: #3366ff;">: </span>Kau betul-tul menyakitkan hatiku ini. Ku sangkakan kau intan, tetapi rupa-rupanya kau grafit. Pergi kau dari sini. Biarkan aku sendirian....</div>
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